It is about time I take active action and responsibility to quell my loneliness instead of complaining all the time.

I am casting a wide net (as u can read from my title). And hope some cute fishies hop in my net.

For now I’d like to keep it online to lower risks for both of us. I prefer sfw talk first before nfsw talk. If we truly get along and we check each others’ boxes off, then we can discuss possibility of pursuing something long term. 

Myself

Chinese living in the US

In general, the body and face won’t disappoint (subjective)

HWP thin

Involved in the STEM arena

More of a indoor type person - I dont have a desire to be gallivanting myself across the world/travel extensively/rave/partying/hiking/the great outdoors/etc

Yet rather athletic 

Im more interested in chatting about values/thought processes/experiences and observations/insights/realizations about the world/what you are looking for/logistics rather than ‘what’s ur fav music/movie’ or anything superficial and unimportant

I dont do drugs or alcohol/smoke

Childfree (it means I don’t have children rn and don’t want children in the future)

Rather chill

Not afraid to stand out in a crowd

Avoid beating around the bush and rather straightforward 

Huge procrastinator (we can play the one upping game to see who wins)

A pessimist by nature (in some ways I’m like an elderly man)

I’d prefer you to be

18 (not trying to catch a charge so state ur age clearly when msging, thanks)

Chinese (hence r4rasian and it is best if ur bilingual in at least chinese and english)

Responsive every few days or so

Bachelors degree

HWP

Mostly childfree (It means you do not want children in the future. I understand it can be too soon to make such a big decision and it is difficult to concisely write out the nuances, but if you had to quantify it, you’d be 90:10 no spawn: yes spawn) and covid cautious for the marriage track consideration

Thanks for reading