Hello,
I'm a 45 year old man here in downtown NYC. I'm in good shape, really great career giving back to society, mentally balanced, healthy, high EQ, and looking for an ongoing connection that, I hope, can blossom into something real. I've come to realize that kink is something I enjoy and want to incorporate, to some degree, in the bedroom (it has become awkward when I hit it off and the other person is completely vanilla and not into kink at all). The key thing for me though, is having a connection.

Seeking something ongoing, but starting slow. Feel like I have my life together, feel good about life and have always been a happy person. I'm an intelligent guy, clean cut, suit and tie for work but casual otherwise. I've been burned before so I'm currently looking to start slow, as our busy schedules allow, and that see what unfolds naturally.

Other things about me: I really enjoy good conversation, speakeasies, reading especially about public health issues, I enjoy attempting to be health-conscious, studying pop culture, I like to think I excel at baking healthy snacks. I am also a huge jazz and film buff, pretty big music fan, like being a foodie, keeping up with current events. I’m really fond of biking and spending hours in the park. I like good conversation, snuggles, laughing. I am also interested in the impact that social media has on human relationships. I speak a second language but... am pretty rusty!

You: Single, mentally balanced, average body type, are curious about kinky explorations, have a good heart. I don't usually jibe too well with people who are overly clingy, and being pretty drama free is important to me. Doing something productive with life will be helpful. Able to laugh.

If you write please be sure to state your age, location, and two or three things about yourself (a physical description goes a long way), and we can start a conversation and see where it leads!

thanks ;)