Hi everyone! I'm looking for someone who matches my kinks or is willing to experiment with them. I value emotional connection and friendship a lot, and while I'm open to something short term, I'm mainly looking for something that could develop into a committed relationship over time.

Here's more about me: I'm 25, 176cm or 5'9", 65kg or 145lbs, and I grew up in Singapore! (fellow SGeans do drop me a chat, I'd love to make friends) I speak English, Mandarin and beginner Japanese.

I have lots of hobbies and interests, including classical music, anime, nature, travelling and lots more - here's some interesting things I've done recently:

• wrote a few songs for a musical
• went to Edinburgh and watched lots of shows at the Fringe festival
• went to Bologna to eat bolognese or more accurately, tagliatelle con ragu (next goal: to eat hamburg steaks in hamburg?)
• visited WW2 and cold war museums in Berlin
• read the Three Body Problem trilogy
• finished a 1500 piece jigsaw puzzle
• watched Jujutsu Kaisen (I'm straight but I'd get on my knees for daddy Gojo Satoru)

As a person, I'm kind, patient and understanding. I've always been the person that my friends would turn to for advice (especially relationship advice haha). In relationships, I value communication, empathy and loyalty - I guess I'm more of a golden retriever type partner. I show my love mainly through hugs, kisses, cuddles and sending memes and cute animal pics (my favourites are cats, huskies, ducks and parrots, though every animal is cute). I'm also pretty good at giving massages :)

Now let's get on to more juicy info! I'm respectful and I won't push your boundaries when it comes to intimacy, but once we get to that stage, I promise I will be a soft dom/gentle dom who will:

• put your pleasure first
• spend so much time giving you headpats and cuddles that you'll think aftercare is the main event (why shouldn't it be?)
• guide you in your kinks and submission with patience and compassion
• will let you be vulnerable in a safe place
• give you non-stop compliments and sweet affirmations
• reward you all the time, sometimes too much (too much of a good thing can't be that bad.... right?)

On to more details of what I'm into:

• My main kinks: handcuffs/rope bondage and facefucking
• My other kinks: CNC, forced orgasms, orgasm denial, giving orders, light spanking and choking
• If you have any kinks not on my list, I'm always down to try new things too!
• I'm not interested in: blood, scat, permanent damage, breeding

Here's some of my preferences, but these are not at all dealbreakers. Bonus points if you:

• are east asian
• are short/petite/both
• are around my age or younger

Once again these are not dealbreakers - I value emotional connection more than physical attributes!

And finally on to some practical info! I currently live and work in Manchester, but I travel quite often - I frequently visit London and other parts of the UK. I'm also willing to have an online relationship with the goal of eventually turning it into an IRL one. If you're the right person for me, I'd be happy to move across the globe to be where you are, after we've built up enough of a connection and the time is right!

If you're interested, do drop me a chat or message with your ASL (age, sex, location). I'm also down to trade pictures!

p.s. even if I'm not your type or vice versa, feel free to drop me a message just to chat - I'm always open to making new friends or talking about literally anything with anyone.