Pretty much as the title says I’m looking for a cuddle buddy! I have been in the process of building a house for… mmm 3-4 years now I think and I made a few promises during the course of that. One of those promises being that if I could not find a partner by the time the house was done I would put relationships to the side and at least get a cuddle buddy to bring some intimacy back into my life. Sometimes we all just want to be held ya know! So for better or worse here I am searching for a cuddle buddy. Ideally you are someone else who like me misses that intimacy aspect in your life and just sometimes wants someone to just relax and cuddle with. Feel free to deepdive my profile if you want to get a kind of gauge of my personality, its just relationship posts and video game stuff though lol, happy reading.

I am in central California, ideally you would be somewhat close by, that way you could pretty much come over whenever you want. I’m a pretty big homebody and don’t go out too much so if you were nearby you could just pop over whenever you wanted to on a daily/weekly basis. That being said I am ok if you are a bit farther away, say another nearby state or far reaches of California, As long as you don’t mind the drive of course. However due to the distance you probably wouldn’t be able to stop by whenever, but we could make weekends out of it. I have a guest room so you would have as much or little privacy as you needed. If you work from home, or don’t work then I don’t mind you staying for longer then a weekend, a week or potentially longer. ( not right away of course lol but open to working up to that if things work out) I would prefer consistency but we can talk about how much, closer would be easier to maintain then farther away.

I don’t have any preferences on age/nationality/ht/wt, everyone needs cuddles right? That being said I totally understand if you do prefer a type so to speak. I am 6.2 230 white, pictures are available upon request, if you want some just send some yourself first, ill take that as a hint its important to you and send a bunch back. I don’t have any preferences on your personality either, that being said if you are a bit nerdy/a gamer we will definitely vibe more, which would probably make it easier make it easier to get accustomed to.

I am looking for cuddles but definitely open to more if you want more. I said I am a homebody and I definitely am lol, but I don’t mind going out to get some food or a movie occasionally. I would possibly be open to heading out for a couple other reasons once it cools down a bit more as well such as events. That being said if you are looking for a cuddle buddy who is also a road trip buddy, that is not me lol, I cannot be that buddy for you. We can talk more about exactly what you might want.

It kind of goes without saying, but based on some of the things I have read before on here I feel I should still put it out here, no one in a relationship or currently dating someone need message me >.> Go get cuddles from your partner/potential partner, that is just weird… no idea why someone would want to do that. I would like this to be exclusive as well so don’t leave here and go cuddling elsewhere!

Is it not cold enough yet for you to want to cuddle? Don’t worry I got a 4 ton AC unit pumping in my new house and a mini solar farm in the backyard to power it, lets rock that AC. Too cold now? Don’t worry we can go pop in the jacuzzi! ( once its delivered and setup lol…) Whether you prefer couch/bed, watching stuff, binging, reading, doesn’t matter to me. I am pretty open to most things although I’m not a really big horror fan. I am also open to cuddle gaming as well. If you happen to enjoy games you probably won’t want to leave lol.

I would prefer to meet up first before I invite you over as well as message/talk with you for a bit first. Whether you are close or far lets chat for a bit, if you are close lets meet up, if you are far I would be happy with some video calls. This is reddit ya know, gotta vibe check people >.> After that come on over to cuddle on my new bed! ( except its not here yet ) or my new sectional ( not here…. ) couch?... ( not yet… ) bah its fine my master bedroom has carpet ( not installed ) Jokes aside some stuff is really not here yet lol but some is, either way we should talk a bit first.

I am throwing this up all over different subreddits to hopefully get some responses with one of them working out. I am taking off after next week to start moving in, so I am still working a lot and busy moving stuff, but I will respond back to you if you message me more then a sentence or two but it could take some time. I don’t expect this to garner that much attention but if for some weird reason it does ill get back to you as soon as possible with my schedule allowing.

If you are interested send me a message about yourself, where you are located, and what you are looking for/to get out of this. I am happy to talk about potential boundaries between us, timing for visits, and how we would work things out if we can. If you are far away I’m happy to help with gas to drive over. That being said don’t be too far away I did just build a house and I’m hurting a bit in that department :P A one or two line response will be auto assumed to be a bot so it won’t be responded to.

As long as this is up I am still looking, I will take it down once I find someone and it works out. Best luck to everyone in the same boat, hope you find yours, happy cuddles!