A dorky dom may feel a little antithetical to most dom posts here - but that’s my authentic self. In my public life I’m cracking jokes and love to make people smile and giggle. But in private intimate moments I enjoy bringing out another side of me that only you will get to see. I am single, never married, don’t have kids (open to kids in the future).

Talking kink first, my dom side can show up in different ways. I can be a soft dom who will shower you with praise and will be your emotional blanket fort - providing structure and a safe space away from the noise of life. I can also channel a little sadism and pin you with “funishments” whether it’s some impact play, restraints, chores, or something else we agree upon. I’m more curious to know what play my future sub is into and work through that.

In my vanilla life: I have a very successful career in data analytics that I love and affords me the opportunity to work remotely and travel. I’ve been all over the world on many solo trips, and I’m ready to have someone accompany me on future travels. In my free time, I have a mix of hobbies. Some nerdy hobbies include reading/watching Sci Fi (Love Brandon Sanderson, Andy Weir, The Expanse, Futurama), playing TTRPGs with friends, occasional video games (Mario, Zelda, Hollow Knight, Rougelikes), and building Lego sets. I also enjoy cooking fun recipes. I’m trying to be better about tending to plants around my place, and I’d love to spend more time practicing art.

On physical appearance: I’m a good looking dude, just not considered classically handsome. If you’re more “open minded” when it comes to things like race and height, then I would love to chat! Happy to share selfies of each other early enough to make sure we’re (or could become) attracted to each other. I’m all for the slow burn relationship building if it calls for it.

Anyway, that’s it for now! I may be a little late to respond if you message me in the middle of the night, but I promise I’ll reply in the morning. Thank you so much for reading all the way to the end, and if I’m not what you’re looking for, I hope you find your person soon. Have a wonderful night!