So I thought I had hit it off with someone after I last posted but I just found out today that he deleted his account and ghosted me. 🙄 Sigh, the struggle is real...

But that's OK! I continue my search to meet a single gentleman who's sweet during the day and is spicy at night. He can be spicy during the day too though, I can handle it. 😊

About Me:
• Korean-American (41), single, never married, no children.
• Currently living in Seoul, planning to stay long-term
• Physically, emotionally, mentally, socially, and financially stable
• Geek! Love video games (mostly RPGs), anime/manga, sci-fi/fantasy
• Love all animals (living with 2 cats)
• Tons of hobbies (cooking/baking, gardening, traveling, working out, etc. etc.)

Assertive, organized, and ambitious in work mode.
Extroverted, cheerful, and easy-going in play mode.
Straightforward and honest. I'm both 밀당 and 애교 free.
No mind games. The only games I play are the ones that involve a controller. 🎮🎮🎮

🙆‍♂️ Who I'm looking for:

• Ideally, you're currently living in or will be relocating to Seoul soon. This used to be a deal-breaker but I'm now willing to consider visitors and tourists, if we can treat each other with respect and you can rock my world in bed.
• You're single/unattached (no poly/ethical non-monogamy). Deal-breaker.
• You intend to meet in person. Not interested in being online only/chat buddies.
• You're affectionate, both physically and verbally.
• You speak either English or Korean relatively fluently. Communication is a huge deal for me so we need to have at least one shared language between us.
• You take care of yourself and value your health (because I do too!)

💖 Bonus points if:
• you have big arms and/or back. Tastefully done tattoos and piercings slay me.
• you'll cuddle on the sofa and watch anime with me. If we end up doing other things, that's OK too.

😭 You're out of luck if:
• There is a huge age gap. I'm generally not attracted to guys who are moderately older or younger than I am. Ideally, you're between 35-41, and I prefer younger over older guys. Not a deal-breaker, however.
• You're thinking "TLDR" because if you don't have the patience to read even this much, I already know we're not going to get along. 😂
• You like 밀당 and/or like being smothered by 애교. Plenty of girls in Korea who do that, and who you can do that crap with. Let's not waste time trying to manipulate each other unnecessarily.

💋 NSFW Section
• I expect we both get tested prior to becoming intimate - no exceptions. Safety first!
• I have ZERO interest in kinks, BDSM, degradation, orgies, exhibitionism, etc. I'm a classic vanilla girl and want lots and lots of vanilla only.
• Honestly, I can't remember the last time I engaged in some good foreplay. Past few guys I've met were in, out, and gone. Is there still a guy out there who appreciates the whole experience rather than just rushing towards the end? 😢😢😢

Chance of me responding to your message is MUCH higher if you sent me a polite introduction with the following:
• Your name, age, and whether you live in Seoul or are visiting (and how long you're staying.)
• What you're looking for. Why did you respond to my ad? Tell me some things about yourself so we can strike up a conversation.
• A recent photo please: here are some of mine.

Chances are high that I will ignore your message if you just send "hi" or "how's it going" or something similar. Please don't make me dig basic information out of you. Once again, please *DO NOT* message me if you're just looking for someone to chat with online.

Should you choose to introduce yourself to me with a dick pic first, I will in turn introduce your dick to one of the lovely moderators in this subreddit. Just because I can discuss sex openly doesn't meant that I'm happy to receive raunchy messages from strangers online. Being a gentleman increases your chances of a positive response.

Thanks for reading! Hope everyone is doing well.