Firstly, I’m looking for a serious, healthy, and stable relationship with an emphasis on having open communication and emotional intimacy. I won’t ghost you - I won’t breadcrumb you - I will be upfront with you if I’m not feeling a connection and I expect the same level of respect from you.

With that out of the way…

Hey there! I'm a 33-year-old from the Golden State, Asian, and standing at 5'7. I am a bit socially awkward at the start but once I get comfortable, I can hold my own in a conversation.

• I’m an IT tech at a hotel management company (I get to work remotely which affords me a lot of flexibility)
• I would say I’m primarily a homebody but I still go outside and see the sun from time to time
• Loves playing video games (I prefer games with co-op, playing games with others is far more enjoyable)
• Watches one too many movies/tv/anime
• I read manga/manhwa/light novels
• Favorite pokemon - Snorlax 2nd favorite is a tie between Psyduck and Gengar
• Love to swim and play mini golf. Recently picked up pickleball and have been enjoying it.
• Love all animals, especially marine animals (Orca overlords when?). I am obsessed with those animal voiceover videos on YouTube (such as KLR Productions). I also watch animal rescue channels like Hope for Paws and The Dodo.
• Favorite animal - Sloths (baby sloths are absolutely adorable) Did you know despite how slow they are on land they are surprisingly great swimmers?
• Interest in psychology
• Diagnosed with the travel bug (aka love to travel) Been to Mexico, Japan, Thailand, Canada and have a forever growing bucket list of places I want to visit. Can you guess my favorite destination?
• A foodie, I would totally travel just to eat. Food tourism anyone?
• Never smoked, and only drink socially (rare)
• I’m an atheist
• I value strong communication as mentioned at the start
• Inquisitive and curious about your passions
• Would like to think I’m emotionally intelligent
• Empathetic, and deeply value connections
• I’m a Leo
• I’m an INFP (dream much?)
• clingy (golden retriever energy?, trying to work on this point)
• a self-aware overthinker
• Totally didn’t strategically put the last 2 points there

You:

• Non-smoker
• Caring, accepting, respectful, compassionate
• Have emotional intelligence
• Strong communication (both at conveying and listening; it is a must and it is especially needed when it comes to online interactions)
• Shared interests with me
• Doesn’t mind someone being clingy towards you

I'm not just seeking common interests; I'm also eager to learn about your passions and experiences.

It is preferable that you live in the United States, and the closer to the west coast the better but if not that's alright too! As we get to know each other more, I hope we can transition to Discord for voice or video chats once comfortable.

If this resonates with you and if you have your own unique set of interests to share, I'd love to hear about them. When you message me, please take a moment to introduce yourself and tell me your top three dream destinations and share a selfie (I'll share one back).

Looking forward to hearing from you! Thanks!