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MEOWDY, nice to meet you my lovely lady, I'm J (name revealed later). I'm 22, from Canada (west coast) and a big time animal lover, to the point where I'm basically a stay at home indoor cat.
I love to play games when I can, my biggest go-To right now is FF14 (play pretty competitively for the most part). I used to play a bunch of shooters growing up, including csgo, fortnite, apex, cod, etc... Minecraft was also my go-To as well, would be happy to pick back up any of these again as it's been a very long while since I've played. When it comes to games I'm very open minded and would be happy to try something new as well!
I used to be very into personal development and spirituality (still am but it's just not my main focus anymore). Not super important but I'd love to sit down and have a genuine talk about the universe and how interconnected we all hehe.
In terms of body I'm 5'4, 135-140lbs, fairly muscular as I go to the gym quite often. I'm Chinese (I think), have long dark hair as of right now and have been observed to be more 'cute' than anything else lol. (Happy to share pictures as we get to know each other!)
Career wise I'm looking into either starting my own business or get into Data Analytics/software development (yet to be decided ofc), so rn I have plenty of free time to spend with you hopefully ;) (Sorry bad attempt at flirting, got next to no game that's why i'm here lmao)
Overall I consider myself to be very sweet, intelligent, a bit weird/goofy, as well as referred to as "cute and adorable" by previous partners :3. I'm also moderately introverted and prefer 1 on 1 quality time more than anything else. I can be a mix of shy and confident depending on who I'm with, sometimes I can talk forever, but more often times than not I wanna just sit in silence and enjoy the moment with whomever I'm with. (SO DON'T TAKE MY AWKWARD SILENCES AS AWKWARD I ENJOY IT)
I'm also quite clingy and would prefer a partner who can match that clinginess. The more time we can spend with one another the better! I'd love to have a partner who I can essentially spend next to 24/7 together with. I just really love quality time and doing our own little things but together, if you know what I mean. Physical touch and quality time are my love languages btw if you can't already tell ;)
I believe I have very strong communication skills and emotional intelligence when it comes to my relationships, (I've studied a lot of psychology and developed my interpersonal relationship skills over the years.) and would appreciate someone who shares those skills as well :). I believe in always making my partner feel heard, seen and respected, as I know what it's like first hand to go without having a partner properly communicate how they feel/provide the reassurance that's necessary for a healthy stable relationship. I'M ALSO SUPER AFFECTIONATE AND LOVE HAVING A PARTNER WHO CAN RECIPROCATE meow.
Sexually I have a very high libido so I'd appreciate a partner who can match that. (Happy to take it slow at first and develop an emotional connection, I do find myself much more fulfilled when I'm emotionally connected to my partner first)
Anywaysss I'm hoping to find someone with similar values to myself. Someone who's very loving and accepting and warm to not just me but to others as well ideally. I'm happy to do long distance as long as there's adequate communication (talking once or twice a day doesn't do it for me). My sleep schedule is also completely out of whack so I really don't care too much where you're from, I can make the time zones work. Please be between the ages of 20-25. I don't mind dating older or younger, just please have the mental maturity to deal with conflict and have good communication skills.
Would also prefer someone who's more on the fit/leaner side, don't need to be super skinny (though having a petite partner would be absolutely lovely) I just value staying fit to avoid any sort of health implications and such. Being Caucasian or East Asian is ideal! Height doesn't matter to me as much but having someone shorter than me would be lovely as I'm kind of a smol cat :3.
Lastly and this is my biggest deal breaker, please be emotionally available and have an anxious or secure attachment style. I can't make a partnership work if the other is consistently avoidant and doesn't have the proper communication/coping skills to deal with conflict, it's just hurtful lol.
THAT'S ALL, I LOOK FORWARD TO MEETING U SOON MREOW :3
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