41 yo. A little over 6 feet tall. 220lbs. 1/2 SE Asian, 1/2 Caucasian. No tattoos or piercings, but I do have a few scars if you're into that. And I'm shaved bald with facial hair.
Located in Fort Worth. Single. No hosting, but willing to rent a room.
Drug free except for weed. Alcohol only on special occasions. Disease free. Celibate since well before my last blood test in January. I vape and sometimes have cigarettes. Employed.
I'm seeking a woman of any ethnicity for a brief relationship. This woman should be someone who generally prefers to express her emotions with words instead of actions. She must be smaller in size than me. And she must need/want something very temporary.
In a dream world where everyone gets exactly what they want, shortly after meeting, the lady stranger names her interests and I tell her mine, we set boundaries & a safeword, we find something that sounds pleasing to us both (her thing is better), and then meet to let loose our mutual, pent up, physical needs. Along the way I get to learn pieces of her. I like almost all women, so I will likely like this woman no matter what I discover. And then at the end we have an amicable parting and no obligation to maintain a friendship, only the obligation of human decency.
I understand this isn't the ideal scenario for most women. And I do realize I'm a man searching for a woman.
You'll notice I'm NOT using a throwaway. This short relationship is of high importance, and my comment history should give a roughly accurate idea of who I am (albeit not the whole picture of a person who's in person slightly less verbose).
I can only see this happening if physical attraction is present. I've got to know you want me in that animalistic way. (Not that I think my profile comments will have that effect.) And I've got to want you too. Mutual attractions give me the security and desire I need to be more open, sexually.
I'll respect your boundaries because I have the self control to do so. That assurance likely offers little comfort. Nor does it address your other concerns, like possibly whether I can sense your needs and desires and adjust accordingly. I'm thinking about that too.
So I suspect you'll want to sus me out over chat. No problem for you. It's only a problem for my chances of having a sexual encounter.
I suspect for most men, the general rule is The more they talk, the less attractive they are. And I can be quite verbose and wordy if the mood is right.
Like now. So I'll end it.
There has to be a woman who has a need that aligns with mine. What I learn about this woman is of great interest to me, even though it might not seem so because I don't inquire enough, and no matter how much she has to say, because it will contribute to a memory of a person who I wish to reflect upon fondly. And I hope to be that for you as well.
I just gotta find the right woman with the right needs. I know she exists. That's the beginning of why I look forward to hearing from you.
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