Hello!

I want to give you a glimpse of what dating me would be like. If this resonates with you, we might just be a perfect match :)

I’m very adaptable, so most of what follows can change. This is just a snapshot of who I am right now.

I’m a bit clingy, but definitely not a control freak. I usually reply to messages immediately unless I’m in a meeting or otherwise occupied. I love good morning and goodnight texts, and I’ll text you throughout the day whenever something reminds me of you or is worth sharing. People have told me I text too much, but never too little.

My love language is physical touch, and I enjoy all forms of physical contact. I might ask for a kiss or a hug at random times, but I always respect your comfort level. If you’re into it, we can hold hands all day or make out for hours before sleeping.

I’m a nerd at heart, but I love being active and going outside. When I’m alone, I’m usually watching anime, movies, shows, or playing video games. I’m mostly on Steam these days, but if you enjoy console games or PC games like League of Legends or Overwatch, I’ll be your best teammate.

If you ask me to go hiking, shopping, or picnicking, it’s always a yes. I enjoy doing things with others, even if I don’t usually initiate them myself.

I’m a minimalist, so I don’t spend money on unnecessary things. However, I’m generous with friends and loved ones. If I receive a gift, I’ll try to give something of equal or greater value in return. Don’t worry about me being stingy; I love buying gifts. I don’t really want anything for myself, but if you want to give me something, a massage or food would be perfect.

I’m an extroverted introvert and rarely turn down invitations from friends. My best friend and I started traveling abroad yearly since we turned 30, with recent trips to Japan and Thailand.

I love driving (I drive a stick shift), but I don’t like wasting gas on solo trips. I often volunteer to drive for group outings or give people rides when they need it. If you love car rides or road trips, we can do that often. Be my passenger princess!

My life is pretty routine: work, home, daily jogging, and weekly tennis sessions. But I’d definitely go out with you, and I can plan trips too! I speak Mandarin and Japanese, so let me be your tour guide in Asia.

I never yell or raise my voice. If I have a bad day, I just need some time to chill and I usually bounce back after my next meal. However, I’m not the best at handling negative emotions. My last few girlfriends had various mental health challenges, and it didn’t work out.

I’m a good listener, though, and can be your audience all day long if you need to talk.

I’m 5’7, about 165 lbs, with an average build. I’m often called cute rather than handsome. I might not be your hot boyfriend, but I’ll be your caring one.

NSFW Section:

I’d like to have an active sex life. I’m not very kinky but open to exploring. Ideally, we’d have sex daily. You’d never complain about me not being willing to please you. But so far, I’ve only experienced vanilla stuff.

Values and Beliefs:

Honesty, kindness, and loyalty are important to me. I believe in treating others with respect and always being there for the people I care about.

Career and Ambitions:

I work in tech and am passionate about programming.

I'm often the one having the most comments in a code review session.

What I’m Looking For:

I’m looking for someone who is kind, understanding, and shares some of my interests. Physical attraction is important to me, as I believe it's a key part of a healthy relationship. However, I equally value a good sense of humor, open communication, and a kind heart.

If any of this sounds appealing, let’s chat!

PS.

Here are some photos of me: https://imgur.com/a/mODu8bx