Please read the whole post if you're going to message me

Hello! I've posted before and I'm still looking (at least I don't post like every other day like some people in here lol). I'm looking for a serious relationship so don't message me if you're just looking for something sexual. Also, EDM/raving is such a big part of my life that I'm really not interested in dating someone I don't have that in common with.

Like the post says, I'm 35 and in Wisconsin. I look a LOT younger and I prefer men around my age or younger (Please at least be under 40). I'm ok with LDR but I would prefer someone in or near Wisconsin as relocating isn't going to be an option for me anytime in the near future.

I have a lot of tattoos and colorful hair, I'm also curvy so if those aren't your thing, don't message me 🤷‍♀️ I'm also monogamous so don't waste either of our time if you aren't. I have a teenage son (only child) and I don't want any more kids so again, if either of those things are an issue, don't message me. If you have kids that can't be a deal breaker since I have one but if you don't have/want any, even better! I have a very good sense of what I want and what I don't want and while I do want a relationship, I'm perfectly fine being single and I'm not interested in lowering my standards. Cigarettes are definitely a deal breaker but o am 420 and psychedelic friendly.

Outside of raving, I love to travel, watch movies and shows, go shopping, enjoy good food or the occasional drink, play video games, go to museums/aquariums etc and I'm very into astrology. I'm also a total cat person and I have a cat, so if you don't like cats this isn't going to work lol.

To show that you actually read this, tell me who some of your favorite artists are or what festivals you're going to this year and tell me anything else you'd like to share about yourself and what you're looking for. I'm happy to exchange pics after chatting a bit or if you send me one first but if your first message is you asking me for a pic or if it's obvious in your first message that you didn't actually read this, I'm going to ignore you 🤷‍♀️

I hope there's someone out there for me 🥺