28F Asian-American seeking a serious relationship. My ideal guy has a sweet, kind, and silly personality. He has similar interests and good open communication skills. I have a preference for clean-shaven East Asian guys and guys on the asexual spectrum. Open to passing trans guys too! I'd prefer someone close to East Coast US and not wildly far apart from me in age. I would want to meet up often if we click.

About me: I'm asexual. I don't do hookups. I don't have interest in sex. If you're looking for sex, it's better to hit up someone else's DMs. I would be willing to try it with a long term partner, but only later if I caught strong feelings. Moving on...

I'm a friendly introvert who can get along with almost anyone. People describe me as funny, genuine, insightful, and a good listener. My top interests are good food, anime/donghua, RPG video games, and learning new things. I'm a romantic. When I have a crush, they're practically all I can think about! My love languages are quality time and acts of service. I like the idea of cuddling and physical affection, but I don't know if that's true in reality yet. I've also been sharing more words of affirmation lately.

Appearance: I'm short, plus size, with glasses, black hair, and dark eyes. I like to dress casually and comfortably at home, but sometimes "go goth" when I go out. Other than going goth, I don't typically wear makeup. I look decent though I'm not a model. I get lots of compliments from random people when I dress up.

More details/conversation starters: I've been obsessed with Baldur's Gate 3 lately. I'm cautiously waiting for the next Dragon Age game. My favorite types of music are rock, pop, electronic, and folk. I listen to some international music. Some of my favorite music artists are Studio Killers, Ludo, and CRUISR. I enjoy psychological/analog/found footage horror. I used to do martial arts but no longer actively practice. It's something I'm interested in picking back up, if time and money permit!