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22 [M4F] California/online - what do you guys do in life?
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ogappleslushie is a male age 22 looking for a female in California
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Hello. I am a 22 korean american male. Lately, after finishing college and starting work, I find myself finding life less and less ā€œvibrant.ā€

I have tried various hobbies over the past year, but eventually even the activities I find enthusiasm in feel dull. I often catch myself counting the seconds in my head, wondering if the reality iā€™m in is reality. it feels like for the rest of my life i just have to find things to fill up the seconds and keep cycling through those things.

Maybe itā€™s a mid life crises, maybe itā€™s adulting, or maybe iā€™ve felt like this since birth but life continued to provide unique experiences i could learn from and experiences to hope forā€¦ until recently

I am content with nearly everything materialistic about my life. I am content with nearly everything I have some level of control or input over. I am not content with life however. I am not content with waking up in the morning and asking everyday why Iā€™m awake.

I know this sounds depressing and suicidal, but I assure you I am not šŸ¤ šŸ˜­.

All this is to say, what do you people do? If it is something I have not tried I must try it. As for the people around me atm, they all seem to either be content and have found purpose in their current life, or have ā€œgoalsā€ they are working towards to ā€œachieveā€ their state of fulfillment. Does this mean I just have to continue searching for this?

I find it utterly detestable that I live daily dissatisfied with life when materialistically on paper there is nothing I can think of I could want more to aleve this. Why do I have to exist with myself everyday just waiting for the seconds to pass by.

Anyways, itā€™s 1230 so maybe iā€™m just tweaking with late night thoughts. Would love input from ppl.

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