A few months ago, I posted looking to end a dry spell. Unfortunately, after sifting through hundreds of messages, I was met with utter disappointment, so I’m back but rethinking my approach to see if this subreddit can deliver.

Here goes. I’m looking to find someone who is physically, emotionally, and psychologically compatible with me. I’ve taken a long hiatus from dating due to personal circumstances (I can tell you all about it if we click), but would like to meet someone who shares my hobbies, interests, and values.

Me: 37. Asian woman. 5’5”. Attractive. Fit. Outdoor enthusiast (love camping and hiking). Progressive in my politics and social views. Professional with a FT job.

My friends would describe me as: direct, funny, reliable, and adventurous. Not into ONS or hookups. Would prefer a LTR and would like to date someone who wants that as well. I’m not planning on having kids and would prefer to date someone who does not have kids from a previous relationship/marriage. As a direct person, I don’t play games; what you see is what you get. I find that I get along better with guys who are similarly direct and good at communicating what they want.

What I’m looking for: Relatively fit and attractive (cause there has to be some level of physical chemistry), emotionally intelligent, honest, humble, and reliable who is within 2-3 years my age range. Major plus if you have a sense of humor and you like dogs.

Sexually, I consider myself to be fairly HL. So if you’re asexual or have chronic ED problems, unfortunately, I’m not your match.

If you’ve made it this far and are interested, shoot me a DM and let’s chat and then meet up for a drink or coffee somewhere. Please, no dick pics.