After coming to Reddit to look for online friends two months ago and receiving lots of DMs from men in their 30s, I suddenly changed my taste in men 😅. Before, when I was looking for online friends on other apps, I ignored requests from guys in their 30s & 40s most of the time because I preferred connecting with guys younger than me. But now, my preference has completely changed! 😅😅

Sigh... And actually, guys, I ended up falling for this 31-year-old Chinese guy from Singapore that I met here last month, but unfortunately, my affection for him is one-sided. Now, I'm in the process of moving on from him, but it's difficult since I like him so much. I really mean it when I say I like him. but heyy I'm making progress haha!

About me:

I just turned 26 last November. I'm female and of Chinese descent. I can't speak Mandarin, but I speak both Indonesian and English fluently. I'm a local here in Jakarta, Indonesia. I like voice calls and texts. If I get comfortable with you, I like flirty and sweet chats and will want to call you sweet names too since we're friendlies (=³⁼⁾

Looking for:

• Chinese man in their 30s. Yes, only Chinese, please.

• Wise, mature, smart. Hopefully, you're good at giving life advice and also a good listening ear. FYI, that's how you get close to me, by giving me good advice and nice convo.

• Never married, single, no kids.

• Not looking for someone in the US because a 12-13 hours time difference is hard to build a close friendship. 15 hours time difference is still acceptable for me.

• Looking to chat long-term.

• Preferably someone who lives near Indonesia/Asia.

• Speaks English.

I'm not looking for sexting, phone sex, video sex, FWB 🙅‍♀️🚫 I don't do any NSFW stuff online. I'm open-minded and can talk about any topics.

If you're interested and if you fit the criteria, hit me up!