Hello all! I’m in an ambiguous yet strangely content point of my life and while those may seem like somewhat conflicting ideas please allow me to explain.

I completed my postgrad in mid 2022 (M.Arch if you’re curious) and let’s just say my twenties weren’t exactly what I envisioned, much to my chagrin. They weren’t the alcohol fuelled nights of endless partying that are typically marked with feelings of wild euphoria, infatuation, turbulence and a sense of depraved invulnerability. Rather, they were more caffeine fuelled nights of endless sketching, hot glue gun burns and a constant, impending sense of being short of time, sleep and freedom. I convinced myself that I was building the foundation for my future and the compound interest of early investment would pay off down the track.

Don’t be mistaken, this is assuredly not an “I’m depressed” post. Quite the contrary. This is more of a “holy fuck I’ve finally done it” post. As a result, i have a post grad, a decade of professional experience and have successfully honed precarious balance to a fine art. There are 168 hours in a week and for me, this is now an eternity. I have a deep appreciation and respect for time and its inevitability, especially now that I have recently turned 30.

I’ve been successful in casting off my shackles of proverbial oppression and it’s finally time to do me and go on sabbatical. This may be the first time in my life where I truly feel… free? I don’t know if this is the correct term. I’m aware I still have to adult and have commitments (no I don’t have kids, fur babies or otherwise) but i have an unending feeling of satisfaction that I have removed the cumbersome rock that has taken its toll on me for the past decade and it’s exhilarating.

Oh dear, I’m digressing aren’t I? My point is: I’m at the threshold of a transitional, unfamiliar and yet exciting part of my life where I can finally focus on things I’ve wanted to do for years. And what better way to herald it than by living abroad. I’m in the process of tying up the loose ends and am looking to travel/potentially move abroad somewhere, where exactly I’m not sure but the world is my oyster (or wherever the Australian passport allows me to). Hence why I’m looking to meet someone online and get to know them as I can basically go anywhere at this point (hence the anywhere tag). Money is not an issue as I have an online business/passive income coming in from some lucky investments I made. There’s no immediate need for me to work and can live very comfortably for the next 12 months.

Ahh and of course, perhaps I should write a little profile about myself:

• 30yo male, easy going, optimistic and adventurous. I was born in the Philippines but grew up in Australia since 2yo
• Until very recently was employed full time as a project manager and have also had quite a stint in the architectural field as a parametric specialist. I have dabbled in luxury resi projects but mainly so I could draw my own dream house in the future
• Fitness junkie, currently a sparring partner for a friend who is a professional boxer. So I’m boxing 1-2x a week and hit the gym 5-6x a week. I recently ran a half marathon and will continue my training in the ph for a full marathon. I’m running about 50-60km a week, most of that is an easy pace with 10% at tempo. I’m a volunteer firefighter in the SES which has mandatory physical requirements so that helps keep me fit. I also love hiking, my friends and I have done 40 thus far and are struggling to find new and challenging hikes close by.
• Pretty damn nerdy. I love a good museum/historical tourism. Chess is cool, definitely would try to give you a run for your money (challenge me at your own peril!). *I am harbouring a slight caffeine addiction like most graduates of architecture. I’m into cold brew/iced americanos or decent pour overs. Sweet coffee is a guilty pleasure.
• Я говорю по-русский/I speak Russian. I had the urge to travel to Eastern Europe/Central Asia (Ukraine, Belarus, Kazakhstan, Kyrgyzstan) but in hindsight the idea didn’t age too well with current events
• And because I know this probably matters to some people… I’m 5’7, I got chinky eyes, short haircut with faded sides, beard that is maintained to thick, short stubble and lined up by my barber year round. Not particularly tan, quite lean as I workout frequently and (mostly) eat well, a toned, broad chest, arms and shoulders blah blah blah. I fill out a shirt and if you ever manage to get it off me then I don’t think you will have any complaints haha! I have simple and minimalist taste in style, my preference is classic over trendy. I have a strong dislike regarding the wearing of brands for the sake of brands. My fragrance for dates/events is Creed Aventus, at the office it’s Dior Sauvage Elixir, at the gym it’s Ralph Lauren Blue EDT and my go-to is either Acqua Di Gio Original/Profumo. No tattoos or piercings. TLDR I’m clean cut & simple.
• Social drinker, never smoked or tried other illicit substances. Although I don’t mind indulging in the occasional shisha. My drink is either a Negroni or an Old Fashioned.

I should probably leave a bit of myself to the imagination but the whole point of writing this much was to catch your attention. So what’s next? Onward my intrepid reader!

Let me make my intentions clear now that I am single and will show interest for the right person whether it be casual, short term or long term. I won’t list many specific requirements here but above all I’m looking for someone who I have a physical, emotional and mental attraction to. Someone who I can share a genuine connection with. Someone authentic and sincere with whom I can share one of those “profound mystical understanding” vibes. If you think that’s you then please don’t hesitate to message me.

If you’ve gotten this far then firstly… thankyou. I greatly appreciate your time to consider me and my post. Secondly, you should shoot me a message and when you do please send me a pic of yourself. Don’t stress, I’ll be MORE than happy to send you mine too! I think it’s nice to know who I’m speaking to, prevents me from feeling like I’m messaging a robot and helps to build a connection straight away… I do tend to get really invested especially if the chemistry is right. And last but not least there’s no need to respond with anything terribly long but please do tell me two random facts about you so that I know you’ve read this :)