Sorry, I suck at attention seeking headers.
I'm 42 and currently going through a divorce that should be wrapping up in the next month or so. So, why am I here now? I'm here because I'm ready to move on. I've spent more than half of marriage trying to appease someone that never considered me good enough. I'm not a cheater and I have two very beautiful daughters. I am very active in their there lives and if they have given me their blessing to find someone to "make me happy".
I'm an educated person that is reclusive and antisocial. I hate being forced into social situations and I can't smile on cue. I also suck at selfies, but I have no problem sending one. I never want to be part of the in crowd. Even though I'm introverted, I'm very goofy at times. My sense of humor ranges for corny dad jokes to sarcastic quips. My daughters are first priority and hold the biggest part of my heart. There is no competition and you'll always be second to them. I'm a homebody that doesn't feel it's necessary to be outside just for the sake of being outside. I'm a hopeless romantic. I love cats. I prefer audiobooks to actually reading because I can work while listening to an audiobook. I overthink things. I can't turn my brain off and its a problem. I play videogames because it allows me to stop overthinking about everything. I'm polite. I'm cordial and respectful. I'm bad with names so I've been practicing by to get better. I'm a horrible dancer and if you ever see me dancing it's a sure sign that I like you. I'm a sucker for a compliment and I love giving compliments. I love being touched and if you're a clingy person I'll probably enjoy it.
This is way longer than I intended
I know what I want. Right now, I would like a friend to chat with and allow things to naturally progress. I am opening to dating and even committing to being in a serious relationship. I'm just not rushing into it. To be honest, I loved being married. I miss being in love with someone and I'm not afraid to get married again. If it is the right person. I now know what to look for and what to avoid. What I'm not ready to do is settle and I won't allow myself or you to do so.
If you're interested, you've made it to the end. So please Chat or Inbox me with a super long self-centered response. Yes, I actually like those long responses where someone talks about themselves the whole time.
Physical Description: 42 years old, but look like I'm in my 30's Light skinned 5'7" 200 lbs (dad bod) Beard (I trimmed it, but growing it back. Long story) Brown eyes Black hair Three tattoos (none of them on my face) Glasses (Daughters say I look better with glasses so I'm not getting the corrective surgery.) Resting dad face (I look upset or perplexed, but really I'm having the time of my life.) I have no problem sending a picture of myself
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