I'm going to just try my luck out here. I feel like I can't be the only one who feels this way.

I'm a bi asian american guy who's always been looking for other guys in the same situation. To me I've always enjoyed deep relationships with my guy friends, but always felt like talking about or expressing myself physically were off limits. Touch just happens to be my love language, and always felt that if you were close to people, who genuinely cares what you do with each other in private. I'm not interested in guys romantically, but it does feel natural that if I bond with someone and you can talk about the meaning of life, your traumas, your relationships, you should feel just as comfortable and free to talk about your own shared human sexuality, be comfortable being naked, jerking off, or whatever. To me those are just part of the bonding experience and getting past all that taboos only grows you deeper.

I have a sneaking suspicion there are others asian Americans there who may feel the same way but we don't exactly advertise ourselves and hold a lot in, but always wish they found that type of connection with other guys where you could be that free with each other. Being asian american has a lot of us on the more conservative side and culturally grow up being shamed talking about or thinking about these things.

I wanted to see if there are other asian american bros out there that want this or feel the same way and want to actually meet in person. Ideally looking for other guys 20-40, people who genuinely value and want friendship and connections and understand how to chill and get deep with other bros, who take care of themselves and are socially adjusted. I'm not interested in anyone who's going to want to just be transactional and is just looking to get off one time or not ever want to meet. If you're just looking to hook up please move on.

Heck if enough people respond, maybe we get all of us together and make a friend group or club. It'll make for fun road trips buddies.