Hi. I'm a 29 year old straight cis male looking for a long term relationship.

About me: As stated, 29 years old. I live in NY state, but I'm open to traveling literally anywhere in the States or global for an in-person visit, and open to relocating in the future if things go well. I'm 5'10''. I would describe myself as muscular/in-shape, but not full on gym-rat levels of shredded/ripped/jacked. A friend of mine just used the word "Fit" to describe me recently.

I'm an extroverted introvert nerd. In my free time, my biggest hobby is playing video games, and would love to share that with my significant other as well. I also like manga and anime. I play Dungeons and Dragons with my online friends. I like to read and write. My non-nerdy/outdoorsy hobbies would include swimming, tennis and martial arts. I definitely prefer a night-in over a night-out. I also like to exercise at home to at least stay in shape.

I can cook, clean and I take care of my pets, so I am good with cats and dogs. Definitely more of a cat-person overall, but I love animals in general, so most anything is fine. I lack experience with more exotic pets, so just expect apprehension of the unknown from me if that comes into question. I also don't use any substances, although I am 420 tolerant. I hesitate to say friendly, cause I don't want to give the wrong impression , but if you want to eat an edible, or drink some alcohol, go right ahead. Just know that I won't partake. I ask for no smoking of anything though.

In a relationship, I like to dote and be supportive of my significant other. "Golden retriever boyfriend" would probably be a somewhat accurate description. I like doing the small gestures to show I care, and I like to be protective and helpful.

What I look for in a woman is someone who is nerdy like I am, first and foremost. Preferred ages are anywhere between 21-33. I am willing to talk if you're a bit older or younger than that range. My love languages are acts of service, quality time and touch. I like to receive words of affirmation, quality time, and touch in return. So, the best way to spend quality time with me is if you could enjoy/share my hobbies with me, namely video games. Because it is a dealbreaker for me if you have no interest in gaming or think it's childish, as gaming is how I relax/maintain sanity.

I will also say that in terms of fun times/kink, I am a purely Dominant personality, so a woman who identifies as Submissive would be a better match for me. I would be happy to discuss things like kinks and more if you're interested, but I'll try to keep this post itself as tame as possible for now.

I have no kids of my own currently, but I do know that I would like to have bio kids sometime down the line (granted I'm not in a rush,) so please be aware of that. That said, I don't think I would be a good fit for any single mothers out there. Nothing wrong with it, I just think I personally need the time to mature as a father, and I want to start from the beginning to get there. Jumping in with a fully existing child is too tall an order for me.

In terms of physical appearance, I prefer Whites or Asians, but I'm willing to talk outside of that. My biggest ask physicality-wise is that you don't be overweight by a BMI standard, or at least be close to being a healthy weight and working on it. I am happy to be a gym buddy, but I can't be a fitness coach/personal trainer. I try not to have a dad bod personally, but I'm also willing to talk about that if you're into it.

Unfortunate to say, but tattoos and unconventional piercings are a turn-off for me. Not a dealbreaker, but it's a pretty big turn-off, as a heads-up. It's nothing personal; I like and respect that tattoos and piercings are important for self-expression, and I don't think it makes anyone less professional or anything like that. My brain just cannot stomach the look of them, so the most I'm ok with are pierced ears and belly buttons at the most if you have them. Small tattoos I could possibly work with, but knowing they're there kinda nags at an OCD part of my brain, so tattoo-less would be ideal if possible.

I am admittedly a boob-guy, so I would prefer larger breasts if at all possible. The bigger the better works for me, but anything C-cup or larger is fine by me. I will be honest and upfront and say that physical attraction is just as important as mental/personality attraction for me, which is why I include information like this.

If this sounds appealing for you, feel free to send me a Reddit chat or PM, either one. I will say that Reddit chats have been very finicky for me lately, so I would like to move to Discord or some other messaging app sooner rather than later. Discord is the best option for me, personally. I have SFW pics I'd be happy to send, and I will ask for some SFW ones of your own as well. I would also like to video chat at least once early on so we know we aren't catfish, but after that, I'd be happy to video chat as often or as little as you'd like.