Hello all! Hopefully you're doing well. For the sake of this subreddit I will say I am white, for those of you who are looking for an asian guy. Though while I'm not strictly only looking for asians, I am interested, hence the post, but if you run across this and think we'd fit and you aren't asian, feel free to message me as well. Anyway if this post is up you can assume I'm still looking. Anyway, as the title suggests, personality wise, I'm overall a pretty kind and caring individual. I'm very relaxed when it comes to most things and I can be somewhat a stoic reserved type, but am very chatty with my close friends or with a partner. With a partner though I am super affectionate.

My interests are more where that nerdiness comes into play. I love reading, fantasy and science fiction specifically. If I don't have a book in hand I generally have one in ear that I'm listening to. Besides reading I enjoy board and video games, swimming, anime, dnd, cooking and baking, a good cocktails, trying new places, and tea (boba too!). I may or may not have a tea addiction...

As for what I'm looking for, ideally I'd like a long term relationship. However I'm not opposed to something more casual and encourage you to reach out if you think we'd be a good fit. I just am generally hoping to find something long term.

Now physically I'm 31, tall, pale, moderately attractive, with long dark blonde hair, a well kept ginger beard, and because this is a kink reddit, well endowed. I'm happy to verify if we start chatting. Also note that I don't really have a hair preference for myself so I'm fine cutting it for a partner.

Kink wise I enjoy quite a lot. I'm a fairly experienced switch leaning Dom. Most of my experience is as a dom and I'm more than happy to only play a dom if you're not into switching. I'm open to only being a sub as well but I don't have a ton of experience soley being one so it might not be for me but am happy to try. When it comes to experience let me say I don't care what experience level you're at. I'm cool with you being new to this and only just starting to explore or if you're already experienced and well trained, all I ask is you be open to explore. If you are experienced or know what you like, know I have quite a lot of kinks so chances are we share quite a lot of them. We can talk more about specifics if we start chatting.

If I sound like someone you'd like to get to know give me a shout!