I’m a 36 year old Asian guy living in New York. 5’8 130 lbs working in IT. I’m trying to find someone who wants to chat on a regular basis to get to know each other which could lead to a potential relationship. Only looking for people located in NYC at the moment. I’ve been working remotely for over a year now and don’t know exactly when that will change so I’m in front of my computer a large portion of the day and could use someone other than my co-workers to chat with.

I spend most of my free time watching TV, movies, listening to music, playing games, looking at homes I’d like to buy but can’t afford on Zillow, and reading up on whatever interests me at the moment (mostly tech stuff). Some shows shows I’m currently watching are The Last of Us, Wednesday, and Poker Face. For music I mainly listen to EDM but have no issue with most genre's.

I don’t smoke, don’t do drugs, and pretty much never drink. Politically left/center. ISTJ-A. Mostly a homebody. Not looking to get into anything with someone too far from my age.

Here’s a couple of questions I’ve been asked in the past that probably should be answered for everyone:

Q: What languages do you speak?

A: Only English. I’m somehow smart enough to get two college degrees but not big brain enough to learn my native language (third generation ABC). Sorry mom.

Q: Have you ever been married / do you have children / are you currently in a relationship / monogamous / do you want children

A: No, no, no, yes, someday

Q: Religious?

A: Nope. Nothing against it if you are as long as you don’t try and convert me to Scientology

Q: How far is too far in the age range?

A: Probably late 20’s? I’m not trying to feel like a pedo here.

Q: Do you have any deal breakers?

A: Have a professional career and take care of your self/health.

Feel free to PM me (not Reddit chat) if you think we would get along, have something in common, or want to know more. Send me your favorite song of any genre and an introduction about yourself so I know you read this. I’m open to text or voice chat outside of Reddit on a popular VoIP app.

Bonus points if you follow any of the FIRE subreddits