Hello there! Happy New Years!! Welcome to 2023! It is still cuffing season and falling in love sounds like the best way to start off the year with a bang! As you can see from my title I am looking for someone to be the Yor Forger to my Loid forger haha. If you get the reference, I like you already! If you don't, that's also okay! (Make sure to check out Spy X Family though! It's such a cute and wholesome anime!)

I'm looking for a potential long-term partner to go on cute dates together, cozy up with some cuddles while we watch movies/shows and just be cute overall together! You're welcome to come steal my hoodies too as it is getting cold outside! I'm honestly sick of using dating apps, and wanted to try something new for a change! It has honestly been so lackluster and dry so, here I am! I am looking for a potential long-term partner and I want to see if I can meet someone on here instead! I’m hoping to meet someone who I can connect and vibe with! Down below is some stuff about me and what I’m looking for in a partner!

Before you do message me though please do try to read it all first! Please tell me about yourself and also include your favorite foods and ideal kind of date! DO NOT message me with just "Hi", "Hey", "How are you" or any kind of low effort message. I will not bother answering your message if you do that. Also I am strictly looking for females, if you are a male please do not bother messaging me

Here’s a little about myself:

• Age: 21
• Height: 5'10"
• Sexuality: Straight
• Gender: Male
• Ethnicity: Chinese American
• Location: New York City
• Zodiac: Aries
• MBTI/Enneagram: ESFP-T & 2w3
• Religion: Agnostic
• Love Language: Quality Time & Physical Touch
• Occupation: Senior Student in Business School studying marketing
• Hobbies:
  • I love watching all kinds of shows and movies ranging from Netflix/Hulu/Disney /HBO Max to kdramas and animes! I’m also a huge Star Wars, Harry Potter (I'm in the House of Hufflepuff) and MCU fan too!
    • Favorite shows: Greys Anatomy, Brooklyn 99, The Office, Game of Thrones, The 100, Avatar the last air bender, Rick and Morty, The Walking Dead, Kim's Convenience, etc.
    • Favorite anime: One Piece, Spy x Family, Shokugeki No soma, demon slayers, jujutsu kaisen, my hero academia, One punch man, attack on titans, chainsaw man etc.
    • Favorite Kdrama: Goblin, I’m not a robot, Crash landing on you, DOTS, Vincenzo etc.
  • I'm a huge foodie! I love exploring all the restaurants and hidden spots in NYC especially to try out new places which includes dessert and boba spots too! My favorite foods usually start with Asian foods but I’m always open to trying new things!
  • I love exploring the city and chilling with friends however I do like a balance of being out in the city and indoors at home.
  • I’m a photographer that specializes in portrait and food photography! If you'd like to see some of my work please don't hesitate to ask me! I also started getting into film photography and it has been super fun so far too!
  • I’m a gamer as well! I play games like LoL, TFT, Valorant, Destiny 2, overwatch 2, Minecraft, etc. but I also own consoles such as the switch! I have Animal crossing, Smash bros, overcooked 2, Pokémon sword and Mario kart and Mario odyssey on it. I do however have a PlayStation 5 too and play some games on it like the Spider-Man Games! I actually play league, valorant and tft the most though! Let's play some games together if you play!
  • I really enjoy building different things especially Lego's, PC's and keyboards! Right before quarantine started, I decided to build my first gaming PC! No more of those pre-built ones! It was actually a lot of fun to build and a great learning experience as well. I ended up giving that pc to my sister and built a second and better gaming pc! If you'd like to hear the specs let me know! I also have a huge Lego collection too!
  • I recently started going to the gym again starting in November so I'm at the process of making the gym one of my main hobbies too as I am trying to lose weight and gain muscle! Would definitely be great to have both an accountability partner but also someone who I can go to the gym with and workout together! (Cute couple tiktok goals am I right?)
  • I'm also interested in getting into skincare and I do have somewhat of a skincare routine but if you are into doing skincare and have the whole "Korean 10 step skincare routine" I'd love to learn about it from you and we could do skincare together!

Here are some Fun Facts about me!

• I’ve never been out of the country before but I would love to travel more one day! Especially around Asia like South Korea, China, & Japan! I just recently went to the West coast for the first time too!
• I was born on Friday the 13th! Spooky! (Shh I promise you I’m not cursed or anything like that)
• As an Asian growing up, you already know our parents made us play piano LOL I played piano for about 14 years and plus I also know how to play 3 other instruments too! Can you guess what they are?
• I’m a pet owner! I have a dog and 4 cats. (Videos and Photos will be provided upon request)
• Personality wise, my friends would describe me as someone who is open-minded, wholesome, sweet, easy to talk to, outgoing, empathetic, trustworthy, etc. I will however let my actions speak for itself though! I’m a great listener as well so if you want to rant/ vent out I’m always here to listen! Honestly though I’m a pretty open person overall so you’re always welcome to ask me any questions you wish to know!
• I know how to solve a 3x3 rubik's cube and my really old record was like 28 seconds but that was ages ago haha

Here is who and what I am looking for:

• Someone to genuinely vibe & connect with together. I’m an extrovert and with the right person our conversations will be never ending. I love talking and getting to know someone but I also don't want to be the only one doing all the talking. I'm looking for someone who can reciprocate the same amount of time, effort and energy I put in.
• Someone who can be both my best friend and my partner. I want to be with someone where we could joke around and be goofy together but also be serious and vulnerable at the same time. It's always fun and nice to have those kind of inside jokes between us and also someone who I can share funny memes and TikToks with that reminds us of each other! Additionally, I want to be with someone who can grow together with me to become both a better individual but also better partners too.
• Someone who has similar interests as I do! This is not really a requirement to have but it’s something nice to have since it’ll also give us more things to talk about together!
• Someone who have similar values in life and in a relationship as I do (We can discuss this more in-depth later) but for example someone who values transparency, open communication, honesty, trust, loyalty, etc.
• Someone who is down to voice/video chat! In my opinion I feel like I'm a really good texter but despite that texting can sometimes be hard to convey your feelings & emotions. I feel like calling each other over the phone is more meaningful to me since it makes it a lot easier to understand each other's tones when we talk!
• I’m a huge hopeless romantic and would love to meet someone who is also a hopeless romantic as well! I absolutely love doing all those cute and romantic couple things you’d always see on like Tik Tok, kdramas and/or romance shows/movies! You know things like going on cute dates together whether that would be dates in the city or dates at home, exploring the city/world together, trying new things together and overall just making everlasting fun cute memories together that will last a lifetime! (I know that sounds really cheesy haha) I do have a lot of cute dates ideas though so if you are interested in hearing about it, please feel free to ask me!
• My ideal relationship is one where to the outside world we are an absolute unit of a power, cute and romantic couple but behind closed doors, I get to focus on being a Dom for you who loves to make you happy and will make sure you are very well taken care and satisfied
• NSFW:
  • Ultimately I want to be with someone who I can be cute, goofy, sweet and wholesome together with on the outside like you see all over tik tok and in real life too but if I’m being honest I also want to be with someone who I can also be freaky and kinky together on the inside too! I love having that duo dynamic in a relationship with my partner. It’s like the best of both worlds yah know? I’d say I’m a pretty kinky person, but that's also for you to figure out yourself whether that is true or not. ;)
  • I'm a switch, dominant leaning and I feel like you can best describe me as a soft dom. I am pretty into the idea of also being a sub for someone too
  • Here are some of the kinks I am into! I can go more in-depth about it if you wish just ask me about it
    • Daddy Kink, Cumplay, Creampies/Breeding, Exhibitionism, Degradation, BDSM (Choking, Blindfolding, Bondage/Restraints/Shibari), Impact play (ass spanking, light face slapping, and pussy slapping), CNC/Freeuse, Foreplay (especially giving oral & making out), Sex Toys (butt plugs, vibrators, etc.), Orgasm Control, Praise (Giving and Receiving), Role Play
    • Aftercare (not exactly sure if this is a kink but would love some cuddles after any sexual activity!)
    • Not really a kink but I love a balance of both passionate & rough sex. One day I just want to feel close to you and share some good vibes while making each other just feel good with lots of making out and taking it slow! You know, like making love together! (Haha sorry if that sounds too cheesy) And maybe other days let me have my way with you and make you know you are my.
    • Overall I am pretty open to trying and experiencing most things

If you have gotten this far and you feel like we can vibe well, share some common interests or just want to chat please don’t hesitate to hit me up! You can send me a message through reddit chat or DM's whichever you prefer. I use discord a lot to text/call so if you'd like please feel free to also include your discord tag in your intro message to me! Please do tell me about yourself when messaging me especially your name (if you're comfortable), your age and where you are from and also what your favorite foods are and what is your ideal kind of date, so that I know you’ve read all of this! Your photo also gets my too! I can’t wait to hear from you! I hope you have an amazing and wonderful day!