I’m looking for a primary partner who’s ethically non-monogamous and sex-positive. Ideally, someone who understands that commitment and monogamy aren’t the same thing (wild concept, I know). Long-term, I’d love to build something solid— read: nesting, marriage, family—the whole “let’s be partners in life” thing, just without the outdated exclusivity clause.

A little about me:

• I’m 5’8, curvy small bbw, black biracial with blonde hair, expressive eyes, and a confident, warm energy. Yes I workout regularly, no I am not skinny. 

• I run my own businesses in home services and event planning.

• I love psychological thrillers, heist movies, and anything with a great twist. If you can introduce me to a film I haven’t figured out in the first 15 minutes, you get bonus points.

• Music-wise, I’m into R&B, pop, rap, and dad rock—almost anything that doesn’t sound like it was made by AI trying to appeal to the masses.

• I love hosting events, exploring Toronto’s food scene, and having deep conversations over drinks. But I also appreciate a solid night in with a cozy meal (cooked by me or you), a good movie, and a little bit of escapism. 

What I’m looking for:

• A financially stable, emotionally intelligent man who wants a committed primary partnership that is ethically non-monogamous. I am self-reflective and communicate well — I expect the same from my loved ones. 

• Someone who’s fun, supportive, and understands that the best foundation for a long-term connection is a deep friendship. 

• A partner who wants to build something meaningful—as in cohabiting, long-term planning, maybe even kids—while still keeping life exciting.

If this sounds like you, shoot me a message. Worst case? We have an interesting conversation and realize we’d be better off as friends. Best case? We find something great together.