Hello everyone! So as it’s stated in the title, I know what I want , but do you? So,I thought I would continue try to give this subreddit ago. After all, I am fine being by myself but would like to find a relationship ideally. I say new ish to the area again as I went to high school and partly grew up in Mississauga but I now live in Vaughan region.

So a bit about me I am currently a York U for grad students. I am in interdisciplinary studies program which is the extreme type of choose your own adventure type of program. I am currently wanting to study animal assisted therapy practices (with dogs specifically) and the implications for therapeutic settings. I am doing this because one day eventually I will hopefully become a professional therapist using animal assisted practices.

More about me is I enjoy playing board games, I have one dog and two cats that all love to drive me nuts but I do love them. So an animal lover is very much highly recommended as my pets mean everything to me. I tend too be shy and reserve at times or I can depending on the context but be more chatty however that’s usually a sign of my anxiety 😅. I don’t mind adventuring or having new experiences with local or nearby places but I will say I am not huge traveller just a forewarning. I am very much of a homebody.

I am(and have been told) the type of person who is tries to spread kindness, empathy, and more of the good type of feelings and I would like someone who is similar. I am pretty introverted who can enjoy their alone time but as more of a true introvert, I enjoy spending people who I don’t drain my social battery through spending quality time together and doing activities both in and out of the home. I would say quality time and physical touch are fairly tied for my love languages. I enjoy cuddling and kisses, however I am definitely not looking for a FWB or hook up type of thing. I am more of a relationship/serious type of relationship of person. But that being said I am willing and also would prefer if the relationship take a nice pace, which means it doesn’t need to be serious right away but more leading towards that. I have no real interest my time being wasted and I don’t want to waste anyone else time either. So please be mindful when reaching out.

I am a mixed racial person (Asian/white), roughly 5’4-5”, I think I am now around 240ish but losing weight as that’s been happen now for a bit. I attached a picture of me. I will say I do have a buzz/short hair by my choice.

You are: Roughly in your later 20s- early 30s, you can either be in a career or in school, looking for more of a relationship than just a short term thing, kind and compassionate person who is understanding of how life can be complicated and complex (ideally willing to discuss about it all of that too!), to some degree a forever life learned type of mindset which doesn’t mean you have had to go through a lot of schooling but more open mindset. Just a heads up I have no interest in having biological kids. I don't really care or mind if you have kids already but my entity of wanting kids is fostering and adopting because of a lot of factors. Marriage is something that is uncertain, currently on the side of no but I also not oppose it either given certain things. Make sure you know what you want or desire to at least some degree

Since this is a Reddit r4r and there has been a proven track record of people who don't read the post. I'll give you something simple as verification you read it all: 1 3=? and what type of relationship am I not looking for?