Tired of all the swiping, messaging, and first dates leading nowhere? Me too. It's not the apps' fault, or ours. For most people, it's just not how intimacy develops. We show our best (And often unrealistic) selves on our profiles, through our messages we build an idea of the other person that does not match when we actually meet in person. Because our brains treat eachother like a completely new person, not the person we have texted back and forth for some time. And if you're an introvert ( neurodivergent who mostly wfh) like me, being at ease with a stranger in a public place with so much noise and distraction is out of the question. But we do crave the intimacy and physical touch. And I'm not talking about sex. Sex without intimacy is like saltwater, you drink it if you're thirsty but it just makes you feel worse.

So, this is what I propose if you're interested: we keep texting to a minimum and meet to get coffee. Then come back to my/your place where we cuddle and talk/watch a show. And nothing else. No expectations at all.

If we both want to, we do it for 2 more days. Then we discuss if we want to remain cuddle buddies or something a bit more.

DM me if you're interested, and we can plan something. Feel free to ask my anything. My preference: someone cute in their mid twenties to mid thirties, open-minded, non-religious, with good taste in movies/shows/anime (Since we might be watching stuff while cuddling).

A bit about me:

• 5"8, attractive, active, South Asian
• Atheist, open-minded, introvert
• A good listener (Even with my ADHD 😅. Might just ask you to repeat some times.)
• Got a steady job and live alone
• Have a lot of hobbies (Currently playing drums is the major one)
• Into jazz, classic rock, psychedelic rock, heavy metal. Favorite bands: Led Zeppelin, Metallica, Color Haze, My sleeping karma.
• Like sci-fi, fantasy, superhero movie/shows. Currently loving the penguin!