Hey all, how are you? I'll be upfront. I'm a 20F who struggles to make friends in the city for the following reasons..

1. i don't go out much to parties/big events as i do not drink/smoke/party and im more of a modest person with certain morals and values
2. i grew up a bit sheltered by my parents (ik im their little baby still haha) so they'd always ask questions, which makes sense
3. although i have a small youtube channel and can be very bubbly, im also pretty careful when it comes to meeting new people

About me: i love psychology, philosophy, thinking deeply, i question a lot of things and im a very curious person, i looove music as well and dancing (but its hard to find people with the same passion for dancing and singing as i do other than joining dance studios lol). music is everything to me, i express myself a lot through music with my imagination. i love honesty and deep connection, i am not the type of person that likes to have surface level conversations all the time. myers briggs tells me im an INFJ.

My ideal friend would have the same/similar interests, is goofy & playful but also can be serious, respects boundaries, and stands firm on their morals/values/beliefs, also someone that doesn't smoke/drink/take substances.

Ideal age range would be 20-27 and although I am okay with any ethnicity, I would say I get along really well with Hispanics (I'm Italian) due to similar cultural values, language, etc. I also love Latin music and I am trying to learn Spanish as I can speak/understand at a casual conversational level.

If my post caught your attention, please send me a message. I know it may sound pretty selective but I am big on feeling like I can be myself and safe/comfortable around someone and I believe there's the right person/people out there for everyone.

Thank you!