Hey gals,

Have you wanted to reach out to someone but have been scared because of creepy men/ people who don't practice safety?

While I can't show you over this post my understanding of how important safety is to me, I can tell you a little bit about myself and take it very slow until you're comfortable enough to meet up in person.

I'm a 26 year old South Asian male. I'm 6 foot, 65kg/145lbs, so pretty skinny. I've been living in the GTA for about 8 years now and drive, so distance might not be too much of an issue.

Although I identify as straight, I've have been bi curious for a while now (so far only 1 close friend has been able to do it for me). I'm not particularly looking for men on this post, so I hope you men don't take it as permission.

I work in tech and have a day job that requires me to work from home. After work I'm typically too tired to go out and don't meet enough people to make me happy, hence the post.

What I like to do in my spare time is dance. I dance a couple of ballroom/Latin dances like jive, cha cha, Bachata and salsa.

What I do believe in is making my date comfortable, ensuring their (and my) safety and most importantly, having a good time. Your comfort and safety is on my mind constantly and any sign of discomfort means I back away and/or make sure you're okay.

What I'm like in bed:

• I don't care too much if I dont get there, but I'll try my hardest to get you there. But also, I'd hate it if you were selfish.

• safewords: BIG fan of Safewords. I use them in and also outside of the bedroom.

• having fun: big big fan of laughing, teasing, joking around. If we can't laugh, are we even having fun?

• your comfort is genuinely my priority

What I'm looking for:

• Possibly a FWB - Someone who I can trust to make me comfortable as much as I make sure you're comfortable. I don't like one night stands or hookups with people I don't know/not comfortable with. The key word here is friend. I want to get to know you before we do anything intimate.

• a date/relationship: someone I see myself ending up with but that'll take a long time to figure out what kind of person we both are and if we like each other.

• platonic friendship: I get along with girls a lot more than I do with guys (childhood trauma and whatnot) so if you're interested in a platonic relationship, I'm totally down for that too.

My ideal sexual partner/FWB:

• Age range around 21-28

• body type: I generally attracted to skinnier/thinner women since that's my body type as well. But I don't mind if you're any other body type, feel free to message me too!

• must have: someone who identifies as kind and caring and must be able to hold a conversation.

So how do we do this?

• DM me if you're interested

• if we're both comfortable enough to take the next step, we share socials and/or pictures

• when we're comfortable, we call/video chat to make sure we are who we say we are

• we meet publicly and get to know each other

• we go from there!

Anyway, if that sounds like you and if you want to get to know me more, I'd love it if you reached out :)