Hey there fellow hedonists. Hoping to find a new friend with benefits. I've found a few great play partners and friends on Reddit before, so lets go through this! I'll say a little about me, what I'm looking for, and a few tales at the end that I hope capture some of the fun and friendship we can maybe have.

I'm a 34 year old caucasian male, living in Arncliffe. People tell me I'm incredibly sweet and kind, i agree and hope I'm also clever and passionate. I have a partner who I live with, we are open and she's aware I'm looking for a new play partner (ethical non monogamy for the win). I have dad bod, with a fair bit of strength underneath (enjoy spin class and rowing). I generally have a bit of a geek and hippie wizard vibe, with the general interest to try everything and find fun in it. I'm generally female attracted. I have no kinks but very kink friendly and played in that scene a lot (mostly switching between sub/Dom orgasm denial and forced, group and public play, roleplay etc). I'm mostly interested in my partner's pleasure in achieving any of my own, so partners who tend to be a little less expressive or enjoy kinks/roleplay that might not lend itself to obvious enthusiasm I like to have a lot of communication beforehand to ensure that what we do makes them happy. I'm big believer in safe sex, get tested frequently when I am engaged in play.

As for a fwb, I'm looking for someone I can actually be friends with, who I can engage in flirting and spend time with them both alone and around others. I want someone who I can spend time focusing on bringing them great physical joy and will be get excited doing the same back to me. I want someone who can communicate well, respects boundaries, understand what respect they deserve and I can support in chasing their happiness in lots of areas of life. I'm interested in a range of body types, as I find the person matters much more. Same for age ranges, lots of flexibility there, but I tend to have more in common with those in a similar age range. I have no racial biases for attraction, and have found so many people beautiful.

Some quick tales from previous play partners and friends with benefits: I helped a partner build a foldable glory hole that could fit inside her doorframe, and helped her manage the flow of guys into her foyer while she played from behind the door for two hours (in addition to playing with her a little bit while she worked on people through the hole) I recently after finding a new friend with benefits realised she would get along great with a friend, and set them up, and they've been practicably been inseparable for the last 3 months (great for them in lockdown!). I took a friend with benefits out to the country, where we hiked over mountains, tripped and fucked in the bush for a few days before dragging ourselves back to civilisation. A play partner insisted on going down on me while I browsed Tinder, insisting I keep swiping as she worked on me. And a friend with benefits really wanted to explore bedroom roleplaying, and found a passion for engaging in pretend. I subsequently set up a D&D game for her and some others, ran it for several months until she felt ready to take over, and has been a DM of a high elf court drama for several years. An old friend with benefits who became a sex workers got in touch, indicating she was having some trouble finding intimacy again with physicality. We spent some time reacquainting and cuddling, talking about how she felt so she could get to a more content place.

So if any of this interests you, didn't scare you off, maybe shoot me a message. Say hi, maybe include a picture if you'd like to get one back from me. Tell me about yourself, cats or dogs, what your arm chair psychology of me is, whatever you like. I will be keen to hear from you 😊