Hello, I've always been really anxious and nervous about sex, and i dont have problems dating but even with my last partner i was unable to bring myself to it. so now im out of a relationship and i realised that it would be easier for me if I found the right person here, without the added anxiety of losing a girlfriend or something. so here i am!

im 19, 5'10, and im somewhat fit. my past experience is limited to oral, and i like both men and women but it feels like a smarter choice trusting a woman with something like this than trusting a guy off of the sub. its a big leap for me, but ill try my best not to bail if i do find a match with someone

preference: i care about whats on the inside more, so ideally im looking for someone gentle but also leading and experienced, im already going to be nervous so it would be great to have a firm person keeping me going. you have to be a good communicator, and ill try my best to also be one. my preferred age range is 20-40 but above is mostly fine if you fit the other things ive talked about.

Thank you very much if youve read it all, and if you have any questions id love to answer them.