Evening ladies and gentlemen,

We all know by now that for the average man this sub isn't that great for meeting women given the sheet unbalanced huge male to female ration along with the fact that a lot of women have been scared away by some of the men here through abusive messages. What little women remain get hundreds of messages a post and become quickly overwhelmed.

And you know what ? That's life, that's just how it is, no amount of complaining will fix that.

However, I still want to find a kinky woman for a genuine long term connection at the end of the day. I have been posting the same ad for months with little to no results (despite trying to put effort into it) and like they said 'the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results'.

Clearly its time for a change and I need to get my arse into the real world and touch grass. Problem is I'm not sure where to start. I know there are kink communities (where kinky women are most likely to hang out) out there but they seem very poly and that really isn't my thing not to mention its a bit intimidating getting involved in a radically different environment. Also I'm afraid of coming off as a creep being a single lone man.

Does anyone here have intel of the Sydney kink/BDSM scene ? Any information would be helpful since I'm going into unknown territory here.

Thanks for your time and have a nice night. Take care everyone.