I am grounded, creative, intelligent, good at communication, honest and, dare I say, humble.

I'm looking for someone who values open and honest dialogue, mutual respect and genuine connection.

I will not meet you, or even exchange photos, until we've had a chance to chat. Please do not send me a photo unsolicited. If we vibe, we can share socials to see that we're each single and healthy.

Sexually, I'm an open book, my post history essentially exposes, in detail, all my core fantasies. It does not reflect the reality of my sexual experiences.

Personally, I'm possibly one of the most laid back, thoughtful and emotionally reserved people you'll ever meet. In interactions I am rarely the bubbly socialite, and more often the quiet deep-thinker. I talk a lot of wild shit with close friends but, with people I don't know well, I appreciate the subtle art of small talk, as well as deep, abstract, conversations about life.

For a variety of reasons, I've had only 3 dates, with two people, in the past year. I haven't had sex since I cut off a fwb >18 months ago in order to be fully single and available for a serious relationship. I don't regret that decision, but I do regret not being more pro-active in finding a partner.

Honestly, I am interested in 3 possible outcomes from this post:

1. Getting the chance to speak candidly with you about kinks, sexual preferences, and relationship goals. This is a conversation I have very few opportunities to have irl, and I seek to share, and learn from, our experiences.
2. Assuming we have some sexual compatibility, and we have established a sense of mutual respect and trust, I am open to exchanging socials and meeting IRL to see how it feels to be around each other, and possibly have some fun.
3. Assuming the connection is good, I am not afraid of commitment.

I am obviously reasonably experienced at chatting online. I am not interested in wasting anyone's time. If you're interested in having a chat, with no expectations, and would like to send me a message, please send an answer to the following question, as well as a question or two of your own.

What is a behaviour or personality trait for which you've removed someone from your life? How did you go about removing this person from your life?