I'm a 23 year old trans guy just for reference. I've been considering going to a place like Sauna X or Aarows or something, never really been to something like that before, so I got no idea what the crowd and culture is like, haha.

I've got a bit of a breeding kink (this goes both ways really, lol), but I don't really like penetration by an actual dick for me. I tend to experience pain with it because majority of people are too thick for the poor bugger to handle, and it's not like, gratifying where I can feel good from it either, haha. I've been experimenting with people giving me condoms they've filled up so I can shove it up there and get myself off with it, and I enjoy that.

Anyways, my question is whether something like this would interest people at a place like that? Or even how I would even go about approaching people for it/letting someone know? Hell, is this something that would interest people in general, not just at places like that? Lol.

This is probably such a dumb thing to ask on god,, But hey, my ma always told me to ask dumb questions anyways, that way at least someone can put you on the right track, haha.