I am a mature man looking to meet a woman of any age or background, for both friendship and to share sensuous and passionate times together in unrushed situations. I would like to find a person who can hold up a diverse conversation, interrupted by enjoyment of kissing, touching, cuddling and intimacy. Someone with whom we can just take our time to enjoy each other's minds and bodies at the same time. So we can spend a lazy day or afternoon entwined and talking and kissing and touching. Not to rush, but to edge, to savor and enjoy the sensations, pleasure and tension that builds with touch, kiss, caress and warm breath. The focus of our experience should be on sensuality and passion, regardless of where the voyage ends up.

About me: I am articulate, widely traveled, tertiary educated, and I am able to hold up an intelligent conversation. I am tall, blue-eyed, never smoked and I'm healthy. I take care of my body and I'm a slim 75 kg. I am confident, considerate, polite and friendly, not rude or crude. I am curious and creative, and people say I am kind and caring. I am very open, and I really like people.

About you: I am looking for a girl of any age or background, who will let me focus on you. Your interests, your stories, your experiences, and your sensuality. You would be a person who can speak in whole sentences. It does not matter if you are shy and quiet, or if you cant stop talking. I appreciate a sense of humour, sharing your thoughts, and broad conversation topics. The kinds of things that excite me begin with emotional intelligence, someone who is passionate about their career, studies, hobby, music, movies, families, or even social justice. Hopefully you also want to explore new things together, maybe there are things you have not tried before. I understand that for some girls, just responding to this post, even to test the waters, can be quite a barrier, but I am patient.

A focus: Apart from talking, my favourite pastime is giving my partner pleasure, especially if they love gentle touch and oral. Slow, relaxed, wet, teasing, seemingly never-ending, relentless edging. For the pure pleasure and gift that it is. I truly love that, and I think I'm very good at it (of course you be the judge). Because it is just pleasure for me to give pleasure and feel your body respond to me. I also love receiving similar attention on me for the same reasons, but I am interested in receiving when you are genuinely getting a buzz out of it for yourself. I get off if you do.

The age advantage: I am obviously an older guy, and maybe this has advantages for you. I bring longer and wider experiences, and I know exactly who I am and what I want. I will be entirely focussed on you, appreciate you, and make you feel incredibly desired, hot and definitely wet. I genuinely enjoy a good unrushed chat as much as passionate kissing. I really do want to hear about your studies and career, ideas, adventures and experiences. It actually turns me on just as much as anything, because one can see the passion and pain of these things in your eyes when you talk about them.

The history: I've tried this on Reddit before with few replies for men, and fewer again for older guys. Mostly I've had replies from teasers who seem to enjoy getting a guy hopeful for a few days, then of course, ghosting, sometimes even after I have booked a nice hotel. Some replies are from undecided girls testing the waters, but who just evaporate in a few days (from nerves?), which I can understand and still welcome (though for closure, one always appreciates a message like "sorry, this is not for me" etc). I thought I had met a couple of really great girls, but some just ghosted and the others mostly decided against going any further, which is fine. I am eternally positive and optimistic.

To be clear: I am attached, but she has medical issues that results in zero libido and also makes sex dry and painful, despite considerable patience, so in our dead bedroom (separate rooms) we have had no intimacy of any kind for over 10 years. Despite discussing all this together, nothing has changed, except that she is my best friend and has supported me to do this discreetly. If you've read this far you will understand the need to be desired.

TLDR about me: * Male 58 yr. * I am from Parramatta and The Hills areas (but travel is easy). * Fit and a healthy slim 74kg. * Blue eyes, dark hair, 183cm/6ft tall, Aussie-born. * Uni-educated (PhD). * I am able to string whole sentences together. * Confident, caring and sensitive guy. * Polite, friendly, relaxed and articulate. * I am cut and told that I am definitely larger than average. * I like girls of all backgrounds and ages (assuming you are an adult).

Photos are available on request.