Compatibility matters. We all want to feel that spark on multiple levels. There are many facets of compatibility we can discuss. To start with the more salacious, I've intentionally posted on this account to allow you to look at my post history, to see my kinks - if nothing resonates with you then we can save some time. The tl;dr is an emphasis on cumplay within a D/s dynamic. Just bear in mind, I do know the difference between fantasy and reality! Other important areas of compatibility are things like careers and family plans; I've lead with what I assume is the most 'controversial' since my aim here isn't to get a lot of replies, but rather to find that one meaningful match. If you do reply, recommend a song you like so that I know you read this post, it will make a good first impression! Any song you like is fine, it doesn't have to be your favourite or anything.

I have a BSc. and enjoy discussing all the 'impolite' topics such as sex, religion and politics. I love fantasy books, but lately have been reading more spirituality and history. My main hobbies are swimming, dancing and making music. I engage in very occasional psychedelic drug use (4 times in the last 2 years) and my ideal partner would be open to taking molly with me on rare and intimate occasions. I am scientifically literate and skeptical at heart, but am open minded and enjoy hearing all sorts of perspectives. My life is riddled with idiosyncrasies and I have an affinity for eccentric characters and oddballs.

I like hip hop and EDM music, arthouse movies, contemplative silences, swimming in clear water and conversations which combine the imaginative with the analytical.

I am an INTP and a virgo if those things mean anything to you. On the OCEAN scale, I'm high in openness, conscientiousness, and agreeableness, and low in extraversion and neuroticism. I'm low anxiety and emotionally stable. I'm also very patient, there's no rush, if we're both interested, it'll happen. My last relationship ended in early 2020 and about 9 months ago I ended things with a FWB because I want to be emotionally available for the right person. The right person is worth waiting for.

A healthy relationship takes great communication, which is a strong point of mine. I also completely understand that mutual respect as humans comes before kink and other levels of connection.

I am tall, healthy, fit and proud of my body. I am seeking someone else who looks after themselves and values a healthy lifestyle. I am big on online safety and am not interested in sharing pics with just anyone, but if we seem to have chemistry then it's fine. Please don't lead with a photo, use your words, help me understand why you want to talk to me.

Enough about me, for now, how about you?