WFH while self employed has its downsides; I never meet coworkers; due to my hours it is very hard to go out in the evenings to meet new people.

I would like someone to spend time with, go swimming, see live shows or just hang out and talk the night away. I'm looking for my person.

When dating, it can take time to establish the mutual trust and respect to discuss important compatibility areas like kinks, careers and family plans. My aim here isn't to get a lot of replies, but rather to find that one meaningful match. As an experiment in radical honesty, I've intentionally posted on this account to allow you to look at my post history, to see my kinks - if nothing resonates with you then we can save some time. The tl;dr is an emphasis on cumplay within a D/s dynamic. Just bear in mind, I do know the difference between fantasy and reality! If you do reply, tell me the name of a book or movie you like so that I know you read this.

I'm university educated and enjoy discussing all the 'impolite' topics such as sex, religion and politics. I love fantasy books, but lately have been reading more history. My main hobbies are swimming, dancing and making music. I engage in occasional psychedelic drug use and my ideal partner would be open to taking molly with me on rare and intimate occasions. I am scientifically literate, but am open minded and enjoy hearing all sorts of perspectives.

I like hip hop and EDM music, arthouse movies, contemplative silences, swimming in clear water and conversations which combine the imaginative with the analytical.

I am an INTP and a virgo if those things mean anything to you. On the OCEAN scale, I'm high in openness, conscientiousness, and agreeableness, and low in extraversion and neuroticism.

A healthy relationship takes great communication, which is a strong point of mine. I also completely understand that mutual respect as humans comes before kink and other levels of connection.

I am tall, healthy, fit and proud of my body. I am seeking someone else who looks after themselves and values a healthy lifestyle. I am big on online safety and am not interested in sharing pics with just anyone, but if we seem to have chemistry I am hoping to be able to move towards getting to know each other irl.

Enough about me, for now, how about you?