WFH has its downsides; I never meet coworkers; due to my hours it is very hard to go out in the evenings to meet new people.

I would like someone to spending time with, go swimming, see live shows or just hang out and talk the night away.

At the same time, going on dates can be time-consuming as you spend time just getting comfortable and getting to know each other and it can take a while sometimes to discuss some of the important compatibility areas like kinks, careers and family plans. My aim here isn't to get a lot of replies, but rather to find that one meaningful match. I've intentionally posted on this account because it allows you to look at my post history and to see my kinks before messaging - if nothing resonates with you then we can save some time. Just bear in mind that I do know the difference between fantasy and reality! If you do reply, tell me the name of a book or movie you like so that I know you read this. I get incredibly paranoid about making someone uncomfortable with a discussion of sex, so this is an experiment for me in seeing whether I can reverse the normal pattern of dating and be completely honest and up front with some of what lives in my mind.

I'm university educated and enjoy discussing all the 'impolite' topics such as sex, religion and politics. I love fantasy books, but lately have been reading more history. My main hobbies are swimming, dancing and making music. I engage in occasional psychedelic drug use and my ideal partner would be open to taking molly with me on rare and intimate occasions. I am scientifically literate, but am open minded and enjoy hearing all sorts of perspectives.

A healthy relationship takes great communication, which is a strong point of mine. I also completely understand that mutual respect as humans comes before kink and other levels of connection.

I am tall, healthy, fit and proud of my body. I am seeking someone else who looks after themselves and values a healthy lifestyle. I am not interested in sharing pics with just anyone, but if we seem to have chemistry I am hoping to be able to move towards getting to know each other irl.

There are many things in my life that I'm proud of, but rather than coming across as a braggart, we can leave some things up for conversation topics as we chat!