No ladies are waiting at 4am for an anonymous and empty account to say "21m hard af let's fuck western suburbs" to rush over and give you a bj.

And before you say anything this is a new account. I'm going to tell you what has worked for me numerous times and then I'm deleting the post at some point today. Purely for the sake of the few/diminishing real women that scroll this and similar subreddits!

If they have a fake insta, don't bother, if they have a million cute animal post to rack up karma don't bother, if they post something like "I'm so horny, please fuck me with your big fat cock!" Fake again.

First of all I don't post. I respond to a ladies post and tell them my age, area I live in, something relating to their post that we might connect on or start a conversation about, and if we might be able to click.

I then send a couple of pictures. SAFE FOR WORK ONES. And end with a joke or something. Then, in most cases you can expect to talk for a few days, weeks or much longer before meeting up.

And if they come to your place, make an effort, get some candles and incense, put music on, have wine and stuff.

Good luck and most of all be respectful. The best thing about it is the meaningful friendships that have come out of it.