Do you hope the universe has someone in store for you who is compatible emotionally, socially, intellectually and sexually?

Let me tell you a few things about myself, and if you're interested, send me a message.

I WFH, am university educated, definitely nerdy and introverted, but can be outgoing and chatty. Reading and dancing are my two main hobbies, although I also enjoy making music, swimming and deep conversations about life, the universe and everything. Deep contemplative silences are also appreciated. Also, I do use drugs; not often, but honestly do hope to find a partner who will take molly with me on rare and intimate occasions. If you reply, please message more than one sentence and tell me of a book or movie you like so I know you've read this. Tell me a little about yourself. I am respectful and conscientious - but I hope this post gives off that vibe, so that you don't just have to take my word for it. Make you sure read all of it.

Very laid back, once in a rap battle someone said "if you were any more chill, you'd be frozen / but at least you and Walt Disney could be bros then". I am INTP, if that means anything to you. I am high in openness and I maintain friendships from varied and diverse walks of life. I tend to attract sapiosexuals, and I would describe myself as demisexual. I am virgo, although in true virgo style, I have serious doubts about astrology...

I'm physically in good condition, and expect that in a partner. I do not plan on sharing photos until we've had some time to get to know each other first - I take online safety fairly seriously. I am not a fitness model, and don't expect you to be, but I am confident in my body and it is important to me to have mutual physical attraction. A recent reaction I got to a photo was:
"You look like the hottest guy on Sundays at church, but is the dirtiest when you get to really know him". (Fyi, I'm agnostic)

Do you ever go on a date and wonder what dirty thoughts lurk in someone's mind? By posting on this account I am intentionally allowing you to "catch me with my pants down". I know I risk coming across as thirsty, but my intention is more to provide you an unfiltered insight from the get go, consider it a form of radical honesty. Let's have some of those hard honest conversations up front.

We all have kinks, and yet it can take time to get comfortable enough with someone to discuss them. While you can usually feel chemistry early on, just knowing that you want to fuck, doesn't mean you're going to want all of the same things in the same ways. Consent matters, but more than that, genuine enthusiasm matters, which makes me hesitant to share my kinks, even though they're fairly vanilla. I am high in agreeableness, so I don't want someone to do something they don't want to just because they think it'll please me.

To scratch that itch, I've spent plenty of time talking dirty with strangers online, my post history makes that obvious enough. The kinks I keep alluding to include cumplay with a D/s dynamic. You may like to look at my post history to see more descriptive elaborations, it will be quickly apparent. Please bear in mind that those posts represent fantasies. If you really want to suss me out on the sly, feel free to reply to one of those posts instead of this one. You hold the cards here.

What am I looking for? My person. Consider this an experiment, for science. Rather than dating with with photos, progressing to getting to know each other as people and eventually discovering sexual compatibility, could it work to flip that order?

This post will not get many replies, but I don't need many, just the right one, perhaps that is you?