Pretty much in the title but I will try to open my heart, as much as possible, and reach out to the one out there.
I’m not here for the same reason as most are… not looking for any hookups, FWB, NSA, or anything sexual.
Married with one kid, and he’s the reason I am still in the marriage (happy to explain further to the one I connect with). I am very caring and introvertish and looking for a very meaningful friendship with a woman (married or single). No judgments, please!
It’s been 11 years since we were married but soon realized that we are not made for each other. Had some divorces on both sides of our families, which forced us to keep our situation hidden from the family, to avoid giving further pain to them.
Had a kid in a couple of years anticipating that life may change but it added more complexities. Continued living as strangers, Love diminished, intimacy vanished and she pulled me far from my old mates because she didn’t like any of them.
I continued supporting her, obliging to her persona and trying hard to patch us every now and then, but it never worked. A lot more, but enough for Reddit!
I never understood why and when she gets angry, starts an argument about anything trivial, hits kid to make me feel sad, and do stuff that I just can’t explain. I’m a patient person and always consoled her whenever things got out of hand, but in no time things got ugly again. Had many discussions, and consultations but something housed in her mind so strongly that she just abused me (thanks to my sister-in-law).
During the last 5- 8 years she has found intimacy and friendships outside and carrying well with her life. I got busy with my career but lately have started realizing that I was missing that liveliness, nice conversations with a woman, and feeling the rush of someone wanting me again and more. I want to feel vulnerable again and meet someone for a cup of coffee, a nice stroll around the CDB, evening drinks, chats, conversation about life, and spirituality, and to grow mature with.
Someone who wants to intentionally invest in a friendship and is interested in keeping in touch throughout the day/week, which is no harm between a man and a woman. Someone who wants to move beyond the sexual/carnal realms and untangle from emotions/expectations in society.
I’m a mature, respectful, well-established engineering professional. Have enough to live my life on my own. Physically, I’m 180cm, 72-76kg, with short salt-pepper hair, brown eyes, and tanned skin. I still do sports (cricket & basketball) and exercise daily as my life’s goal. I’m happy to share face selfies if anyways want to explore this and invest some time. I’m friendly, caring, and very easygoing.
I work in CBD and live northwest, but I don’t want travel time and distance to be a reason we don’t meet up.Â
Hopefully, there is a woman out there who wants the same things….if you’re out there, please get in touch!
Thanks for reading, enjoy your day! :)
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