i’m looking for a guy i met up with quite a few times and chatted to regularly on snap for months. i’d gone to yours a few times, you have many plants and i enjoyed you showing them to me, and was (and am still) very impressed by how healthy your calathea is.

a week ago, i wasn’t sleeping well and i sent you a message at 5.30 am that i thought was innocuous. it upset you and i’m not sure why, but i did (and do) apologise. a day later you were gone without a word (we did promise that if either of us were going to cut off contact, we’d at least give the other a heads up).

i really enjoyed your company - not to mention the sex - and i’m feeling pretty down that you’re just… gone. if you see this, and i think you might, chuck me a message? my snap username is the same, or you can dm me here.

posting something as honest as this isn’t really in my nature and leaves me feeling pretty vulnerable/exposed, so i hope if you do see this that you’ll take it in the good faith i intend it to be and duck back into my life at least once more. even if it’s just to say you’re no longer interested - i’d still appreciate hearing that.

(general apologies to everyone for this long ass post lol)