Hey there fellow kinky redditors! We’re back looking on r4rseattlewa after finding some success in the now-defunct former subreddit. We’re hoping to find guy who is open to building an ongoing friendship with both of us outside of the bedroom, and if chemistry and interests align be more of a FWB or more. Ideally would like to find people who are interested in exploring ongoing friendships, but open to relationships changing and being negotiated with time. We generally both enjoy relationships that can be snarky/playful and full of banter. As a brief example of things we’ve enjoyed in the past, our last r4r post was looking for people to competitively play worldle with, with the rewards for winning starting off as nudes and playful chat and eventually lead to an ongoing FWB. We’ve both thought of many fun situations that we’d like to explore with a shared friend (Mario Cart with MILF on the line, board games with sexual stakes, exhibitionism in front of each other, free-use hangouts, many many more).

That being said friendships are built on mutual interests so we’ll start there. Some of our major shared interests are exploring new places/checking out new activities, paddle boarding, concerts (next planned is Islands), kink related events, Sounders games, trying new restaurants, playing board/video games, getting into discussions/debates with friends (have some great games for this), occasional edibles/420, cooking, reading, continuing education/self improvement. Some of her major interests are: cats, CATS, behavioral psychology, =<^.>=, olympic weightlifting, art projects/drawing. Some of his major interests: playing soccer (pickup mostly), riding bikes, snowboarding, software design & engineering (ask about Arduino kink project).

As to the WB parts of the FWB dynamic that we’re hoping to build, Ideally we’re hoping to find a guy who’s either bisexual, heteroflexible or at least interested in trying DVP/DP and other group configurations with her at the center. She’s open to on-on-one experiences, but ideally would like to find a match who’s either experienced or interested in exploring some type of group dynamic, even if that is being watched. We generally aren’t into the cuckold/shame dynamic, but instead for more affirming / shared joy/fun/play based interactions (though we are really open to discussing a lot and negotiating a situation that works for all based on interests and needs). As it pertains to MFM, MMF, and MF M group dynamics we both are open to a lot and both are generally curious/love to share in other people’s interests as well. If you have any specific things you’d like to explore that would be a good thing to include in early messages too.

As to physical stats: She’s 5’2”, Asian who is pretty fit/ good muscle tone with tattoos and piercings. He’s 5’11”, White and fit/athletic no tattoos but some facial piercings.

Good candidates for friends ideally would:

• Be single, CNM/ENM, not-cheating male, 21-42 years old Located in Seattle Metro Area (preferably north Seattle, Eastside)
• We’re located north of Seattle about 10-15 minutes out Lake City to the North, open to people all over the general metro Seattle area, but have found it easier to maintain ongoing friendships within a 30 minute drive (and a friend within biking distance on the Burke Gilman would be amazing!) *STI/STD free and willing to provide recent STI documentation (recent STI results will be presented to you as well)
• Kind, nonjudgmental demeanor
• Experience or at the very least interested in a MFM/MMF group dynamic
  

Ideally messages would have most/all the following:

• A little bit about yourself
• What you find interesting about this post, any shared interests.

The most likely to get responses, meetups in the past have had:

• Well-considered and articulated responses able to convey a decent personality match as well as compatible interests
• Ability to identify and express some of your desires as it pertains to M F M dynamic as well as to communicate and advocate for your longer term desires and needs. (negotiation & consent is sexy)
• face picture

Final thoughts/considerations:

Last time we did a r4r post the amount of responses was very hard to handle in the first day, but will try to catch up and respond within a few days of the post. Just to be up-front with out responses and reviewing process: first the male half will screen for creepy, low effort, dick pic only, people well out of age range, etc, responses and then from there she’ll review and we will reach out to good matches. Classic reddit messages seems to be most reliable in the past, and even more so after reddit killed 3rd party apps. After a little back and fourth on reddit, we would ideally move to a group chat on Telegram (or open to other platforms)