I'm currently seeking a partner to connect with physically and to share affection and that energy that fills your soul with warmth. I love the idea of friends with benefits, but where the relationship is defined by true friendship that includes hot sex. I'm not a fan of labels or expectations. I'm more a fan of magic, finding comfortable connection, and giving things room to be what they are.

I am committed to only dating people who let me be my whole, vulnerable, affectionate, silly, feminist self. I'm a witch, a mom, an outspoken proponent of body/fat liberation, social justice, women's rights, and energy healing through intimacy and sex. I work as an administrative assistant, but writing is my passion (there are links in my bio if you're interested).

I'm in the midst of an awakening of sorts. Historically, I've mostly dated cis men, but that isn't what I want anymore. I no longer identify as straight, and it's time to grow into my queerness. I'm most attracted to nonbinary, genderfluid, and androgynous folks recently. If you're a cis-man recognize that my bar's pretty high. I am worth it.

Some interests include: Sci-Fi, going to the movies, making out, art, tarot, emotional intelligence, and cinnamon buns. If any of this sounds interesting, intriguing, or sparks your interest, please message me and let's make some magic!

Important things to know:

• Free time is valuable and planning is required: I'm not rarely spontaneous or available last-minute
• I have a lot of time to text/chat and enjoy getting to know someone that way before meeting
• I am HSV1
• I am fat and sexy, if you think that's an oxymoron, don't message me
• I'm polyamorous and not looking for monogamy or a nesting partnership
• I don't date folks more than 15 years younger than I am
• I'm most interested in people who are local (or who will be) that I can meet and touch in meatspace