Hi! How are you? I hope you're staying cozy. We've reached my least favorite part of the year - it's dark when I get to work, and it's dark when I leave to go home. December and January feel like a heavy blanket, which can be difficult. The good news is that blankets are great for cuddling under.

I turned 42 last month, and am slightly disappointed that I'm not instantly enlightened since 42 is it, right? The answer to life, the universe, and everything else? Still, I feel more like myself in this moment than I ever have before. I think I'm figuring it out. Maybe?

I don't have a long list of requirements for what I want in a partner, but I am committed to only connecting with people who let me be my whole, maskless, vulnerable, affectionate, silly, feminist self. I am a witch, a mom to 2 teen boys, and an outspoken proponent of body/fat liberation, social justice, women's rights, and energy healing through intimacy and sex. I work as an administrative assistant, but writing is my passion (there are links in my bio if you're interested).

My relationship orientation was a lot easier to settle into than my still-evolving sexuality. Historically, I've mostly dated cis men, and that's something that I'm actively trying to change. I no longer identify as straight, and it's time to grow into my queerness. I'm most attracted to nonbinary, genderfluid, and androgynous folks recently. If you're a cis-man recognize that my bar's pretty high. I am worth it. I'm most interested in people who are local (or who will be) that I can meet and touch in meatspace.

Some interests include: Sci-Fi, going to the movies, making out, art, tarot, emotional intelligence, and cinnamon buns. If any of this sounds interesting, intriguing, or sparks your interest, please message me and let's make some magic!

Important things to know:

• I'm a single mom of 2 boys which means free time is valuable and planning is required (I am not spontaneous or generally available last-minute)
• I have a lot of time to text/chat and enjoy getting to know someone that way before meeting
• I am HSV1
• I am fat and sexy, if you think that's an oxymoron, don't message me
• I'm polyamorous and not looking for monogamy or a nesting partnership
• I don't date folks more than 15 years younger than I am