As the title says, I am hoping to find a friend and a lover. Not looking for full on dating, but also not just looking for a FWB. Looking for something in the middle, a situationship, so to speak.
We all have our situations, and we also have our needs, wants and desires, as humans. As humans we are social beings, and we also need caring companionship, and affection. Some of us are in situations where those things do not exist. Not looking to judge, or be judged. Just looking for someone who can relate, who too would like a friend, first and foremost, where we can chat, message and talk, getting to know each other, and sharing in what is going on in our worlds. We can talk about the good, we can talk about the bad, and everything in between. We can laugh, and on those days when everything is overwhelming, we can cry, and it is not a bad thing. We can relate, and we can connect. As we grow, and if there is connection and attraction, we can become much more. This is not meant to be a race, there is no ‘agenda’. If there is something between us that grows into something truly special and loving, it can become something that really is amazing.
If any of the above speaks to a part of you, even if just a bit, I would love to hear from you. There is no harm in just saying ‘hello’. Just try it, take a chance. You might just be very happy that you did.
I am a WM, 54, attractive, respectful, very much a gentleman. I am not a flake, and I have my $#!t together. And, I am hoping to hear from you!!!
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