It seems like we just skipped straight from summer to smoke season to full on winter. *Super Great!* The good news is that it's cozy blanket cuddle season, baby! So, I'm seeking beautiful humans looking for chemistry, butterflies, and the delicious euphoria of sparks with someone new. Must be okay with me shoving my ice-cold feet against them to suck out the warmth I need. Joking. But...

I don't have a long list of requirements for what I need in a partner, but I am committed to only connecting with people who let me be my whole, maskless, vulnerable, affectionate, silly, feminist self. I am a witch, a mom to 2 teen boys, and an outspoken proponent of body/fat liberation, social justice, women's rights, and energy healing through intimacy and sex. I work as an administrative assistant, but writing is my passion (there are links in my bio if you're interested).

2022 has been a huge year for me, in so many ways. It seems appropriate that I'm turning 42 this month, which I presume means that I'll be enlightened since 42 is it, right? I feel more like myself in this moment than I ever have before. I think I'm figuring it out. Maybe? My heart feels very open and I crave those comfortable, deep connections you can make with someone who's willing to be vulnerable together. I also crave physical connection and pleasure, and would love to find someone looking for something ongoing to settle into.

I'm not looking for monogamy, I've been polyamorous for around 9 years - well, to be more precise, I've known I was poly for that amount of time. I was in a monogamous relationship/marriage for 14 years, and it didn't take me long after it ended to figure out that I never wanted to do that again. I have lived with my nesting partner for the last 5 years and that relationship just ended. It is growth and sad all at once.

My relationship orientation was a lot easier to settle into than my still-evolving sexuality. I have a girlfriend who is my twin flame and who I can't wait to know for the rest of my life, and a new sweetie who is an adorable enby critter. Other than that, I've mostly dated cis men, and that's something that I'm actively trying to change. I no longer identify as straight, and feel like it's time to grow into my queerness. I'm most attracted to nonbinary, genderfluid, and androgynous folks recently. If you're a cis-man recognize that my bar's pretty high. I am worth it.

Some interests include: Sci-Fi, going to the movies, making out, art, tarot, emotional intelligence, and cinnamon buns. If any of this sounds interesting, intriguing, or sparks your interest, please message me and let's make some magic.