Hi, my name is Rachael and I live in Bellingham. I love it here, it's beautiful. I commute to work every day along a gorgeous lake, and Washington has the most stunning sunsets. I grew up on the water and the smell of the Salish Sea is like home for me, comforting and grounding.

I've been practicing polyamory for around 8 years. I was in a monogamous relationship/marriage for 14 years, it ended poorly, and I can’t see myself getting married again. When it ended, I started learning a lot about different types of love and relationships, and identified strongly with ENM, so here I am! I live with my nesting partner and we are raising two boys who were born during my marriage and are now teens.

I have historically identified as a straight woman, but in the last few years my sexuality has begun to evolve, and I now identify as a big old question mark. I have a girlfriend who is my twin flame and who I can't wait to know for the rest of my life. Previously I've mostly dated cis men, and that's something that I'm exploring right now. I no longer identify as straight, but beyond that I suppose I'm a work in progress.

So why am I here? I’m not just looking for one thing, and the things that make me feel full often just happen or come from unexpected places. Ideally, I’m looking for people who are open minded and open hearted, who might have an interest in energy healing/sharing, who are looking for a soft place to land and comfortable conversation that leads to anticipation and shared pleasure.

While I'd love to chat with people I am ultimately able to meet in person, I'm open to different types of relationships with the right connection.

I have a fair amount of time in my life to chat, and I'd love to find people with whom conversation comes comfortably and naturally. If you're longing for something that goes way beyond hellos to sharing the parts of yourself that make you who you are, I might be for you! I'm interested in growth, spirituality, the human condition, building warmth and anticipation, genuine affection, maybe love, maybe something else we haven’t named. Does this appeal to you? Let's chat!