If what I wrote is interesting and intriguing, but you're not sure or you think you don't fully fit what I'm looking for, please take the time to message me anyway. After all, the worst that can happen is getting in trouble and having to pay the price, right? ;)

Well hello there! I didn't think I'd see YOU in this subreddit! I must say, it's quite awesome you're here :) While we both know that you don't usually advertise this side of yourself - we also both know how much submission means to you. Don't we?

So! Are you ready for an adventure? Of course you are! That's why you're here. The question I have for you then is: How MUCH of an adventure do you want, and do you want one that lasts for a very long time and might not end?

You DO? That's what I was hoping you'd say. We both know you're tired of endlessly scrolling these posts or creating one of your own and getting too many fuck bois, time wasters, grammar ravagers, and ghosts where Scooby Do doesn't even show up for fuck sake.

Yet, you can't stop looking for that man who will hit you right in the feels. You know, the deep and primal connection where the real world falls away because it is so intense it makes your heart race, your mind run, and your pussy...

Then you're even MOAR excited when you realize he checks those boxes you have for your partner:

Caring. Charming. Depraved. Discreet. Dominant. Educated. Empathetic. Hilarious. Honest. Humble. Intelligent. Kinky. Private. Safe. Solvent. Strict. Respectful. Vulnerable. Alphabetical.

Perhaps you're new to submission and kink and are looking to explore it while learning from a wise and patient professor. A man who is gentle and allows you to take the time to process what you're learning. Who can give you the delicious mix of pleasure that affects your mind just as much as your body. Then knows how to hold you tight and care for you.

Or, perhaps you've come to understand that no matter which direction your life goes that you really DO want to experience it with a man who will take control along with ALL the responsibilities that comes with. A man who will be your rock, who can learn about you, and listen to you, while also providing advice, direction, and support. A man who will enable you to achieve what you're truly capable of.

I'm accomplished, highly educated, and well-traveled. I enjoy laughter and despite how this post may sound am very easy going and fun to be around :) It's important you're in a place in life where you're ready for a real relationship and you have either begun your career or are finishing your education. As I don't do drugs, rarely drink, and haven't been arrested (A would recommend unless you're a celeb), one important aspect about me that you should know is that kink, power exchange, and sex are my main vices.

I'm looking for a relationships that's realistic, achievable, and that we both grow into as the intimacy deepens. As a Dom I will create a private bubble for US where we can fully let go. I also understand you have priorities. The type of dynamic I create will take those into account so you will have the space and time you need to fulfill them and to be YOU.

I crave to learn new things and am seeking a partner to explore the world with. As well as each other ;) What would you enjoy teaching me? The type of woman I'm looking for is one who enjoys submission and serving. You should enjoy taking the time to learn everything about me, as I will you. I believe creating processes and protocols are important and allow a D/s relationship to flourish long term. I will never have unrealistic requests, and will take the time to explain everything to you. Especially, after I've answered all your questions. As I know you'll have lot's since you also enjoy details!

I need a connection outside of kink, as that allows this type of relationship to fully create chemistry and true connection. If you'd really like to grab my attention, then in your reply please explain to me what you connected with in my post and why you're replying. I'm looking for something with power exchange outside of the bedroom. Not in an overt way, but one that allows us to continue the dynamic discreetly, as that allows you to embrace your role and place, and eases the transition between real life and US.

That means you're also looking for a real relationship based on D/s and kink with the all the awesomeness of a regular relationship layered on top. So we will have that incredibly intimate connection. Yet, to the rest of the world we'll be that regular (boring even? hah) couple.

If you are who I'm looking for then you should know it doesn't matter to me where you live. I'm able to easily travel (I'm the one Taylor Swift loans her jet to) and am willing to start online. For I know it's more important that instead of finding someone in my city, I find YOU!

I understand that it's not always easy responding to these posts. Especially, as you may not have had this type of relationship before, or you're not sure you're ready for it. So why don't we just chat a bit and see how we get along :) So instead of waiting, please send me a private message, and tell me two things which are important to you in a relationship, and one thing that you think I should know about you.

*Spanking, Praise, & Potter is available for collection upon successfully completing secret submissive missions involving laughter and adventure