It's one of those things where go together to galleries and bookstores (would love it if you love books and art), where we also go to the gym (would love it if you are active), where we go to restaurants (would love it if you are not a picky eater), or bar hop our way around Lake Union, or smoke weed in my backyard (would love it if you are not opposed to weed), or hike (would love it if you do), or play some music together (would love it if you sing or play an instrument) or simply do nothing at but stare at the clouds on a beach somewhere (would love it if you have the time and inclination to travel)...

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Me... I march to the beat of my own drum. I am SINGLE (would like you to be too) and with many interests. I am busy in life but can always make the time for you. I am charming and can talk your ear off but I can also listen and hold your hand. I am 6-1 and in active shape for my 49 years - I look great in a suit but not wearing speedos anymore. I am not patient but I am kind. I am really good at what I do but at times I lose sense of why I do it. My heart aches for a relationship but I also often feel like I am a discontinued model car that is just roaming the roads until it breaks down.

I kind of still hope for the old-fashioned girlfriend thing - where we talk a lot and do quite a bit together and travel and all of that. The thing where I hold your hand and you tell me about your work or your friends and the thing where I make you a drink because that thing at your work is just crazy...

I find myself interested in many people and charm and personality make my pulse quicken but those also go so well with red lips and hips made for dancing. I tend to connect with people who laugh and have a sense of humor and I tend to respectfully shy away from people who still in pain and emotional anguish. In those cases I would rather be your friend than your lover.

I like to lead and make most decisions. I am very respectful and kind but I am not submissive. I love people with a sense of humor because the whole thing is quite ridiculous when you think of it. I love to dominate but I also can be on my knees - yes - you can be dominant even on your knees. We can dance to whatever kinky music we wish to - my range is quite broad as long as we both share a sense of fun and joy.

So ... would love to hear from you.