I am a successful, educated, handsome guy who outwardly looks like I've got it made.
But inside I've always felt a weakness, and I’m ready to start exploring the “boy” side of me sexually, and I need a man with a powerful but very caring dad-vibe to do this with. I am not looking for a BDSM “daddy.” I want a nurturing, affectionate dad/son dynamic.
In private, I want to give up the "strong" facade I've put up and let myself be weak in a supportive dynamic. I had always seen wanting a dad(dy) as a sort of personal weakness and something to be ashamed of, so I suppressed it. But lately I've come to know that this is a side of me that I need to express and that acknowledging this "weak" side of me is strength. And I need a strong man who will help take me where I need to go.
I to explore this side of me with a dad who encourages me and builds my confidence and lets me know that it's ok to feel weak with him. The safer and more supported I feel, the more of myself I'll be able to give him.
Just to be clear, when I say "daddy," I'm not talking about an S&M daddy or a "bend over now, boy!" daddy.
I'm talking about a loving dad-type figure who wants to look out for his son, is patient with him while he figures this part of him out, kiss him on the forehead, hold him, dote on his boy, and share special bonding time together naked.
Also, dads can be any age, even younger than me. It's the attitude and mindset that matters. Just be real and be honest, and we'll get along wonderfully.
I am in West Seattle, but I can never host and logistics may be tricky. I think establishing chemistry first is absolutely important anyway.
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