I am a successful, educated, handsome guy who outwardly looks like I've got it made.
But inside I've always felt a weakness and like I need a masculine mentor to look out for me, comfort me, and lead the way -- especially in the bedroom. I’ve never explored this side of me.
In private, I want to give up the "strong" facade I've put up and let myself be weak in a supportive dynamic. I had always seen wanting a dad/big bro as a sort of personal weakness and something to be ashamed of, so I suppressed it. But lately I've come to know that this is a side of me that I need to express and that acknowledging this "weak" side of me is strength. And I need a strong man who will help take me where I need to go.
I to explore this side of me with a dad/big bro who encourages me and builds my confidence and lets me know that it's ok to feel weak with him. And when I give myself to him, he'll make me feel safe and supported. The safer I feel, the more of myself I'll be able to give him.
Just to be clear, when I say "daddy," I'm not talking about an S&M daddy or a "bend over now, boy!" daddy.
I'm talking about a loving father or big bro figure who wants to look out for his son/little bro, is patient with him while he figures this part of him out, kiss him on the forehead, hold him, dote on his boy, and share special bonding time together.
And to be clear, dads and big bros can be any age. It's the attitude and mindset that matters. Just be real and be honest, and we'll get along wonderfully.
Briefly put: I want to explore this side of myself with a daddy/big bro who's masculine and dominant, but sees supporting and protecting his boy -- not degrading him -- as the ultimate expression of his dominance.
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